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I thought I was Stupid; Now I have a PhD

December 30, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 23 Comments

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Laurie Buchanan

From GED to PhD

“My Gutsy Story®” by Laurie Buchanan

Following thirteen months behind my only sibling’s footsteps was hard. Really hard. From elementary school on, Julie was a glowing student. Barely having to crack a book, she absorbed, digested, and understood information seemingly by osmosis, and had fun doing it.

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Laurie Buchanan elementary school.

She maintained straight A’s throughout her academic career, was listed on every honor roll, was valedictorian of her graduating class, and earned a scholarship to San Diego State University. I, on the other hand, struggled to maintain a C average and ran away from home at the age of fifteen.

Let’s take a moment and rewind…

I thought I was stupid. Compared to my sister, it certainly appeared that way. However, it wasn’t until many years later I discovered that I learn in a different way from how I was being taught. There are three learning styles:

  • Auditory learners grasp things by hearing them—the worst test type for them is reading passages and writing answers about them in a timed test. They’re best at writing responses to lectures they’ve heard. They’re also good at oral exams.
  • Visual learners comprehend through seeing them—the worst test type for them is listen and respond. They’re best at diagramming, reading maps, essays (if they’ve studied using an outline), and showing a process.
  • Tactile (kinesthetic) learners understand through experiencing/doing them—the worst test type for them is lengthy tests and essays. They’re best at short definitions, fill in the blanks, and multiple choice.

The general teaching population when I was in school were auditory teachers. As a heavily tactile learner, with a smidgen of visual thrown in for good measure, I was missing the boat!

Fast forward…

When you run away from home, you also run away from school. Had I done any advance planning—which I had not—I would have known that if you leave high school before you graduate, you can’t test for a GED—General Education Diploma—until two years after your graduating class.

“Why not?” I asked. The firm, but polite career counselor at Clark College, the local junior college in Vancouver, Washington—a few states from home—explained that if that particular stop-gap measure weren’t in place, every high school student would jump ship early.

I had lied about my age and was working at Fred Meyer, a large, everything-under-one-roof store. Over the next few years I worked my way up to managing the women’s wear department, then added men’s wear, and topped it off with furniture.

During this window of time I was gaining valuable life experience. Part of this seat-of-the-pants wisdom was learning to say, “I don’t understand. Can you please explain it differently?” And then I noticed that no matter how many times someone “told” me, it wasn’t until they “showed” me that I got it! When shown, I not only met, but exceeded what was expected of me.

Managing all of those departments wasn’t enough to keep my mind fully occupied. If testing for the GED was out of the question at that time, I wanted to know if they’d at least let me take CLEP tests (College Level Examination Program) so I’d be ready to hit the ground running at the junior college level once I had my diploma in hand. The same polite, but firm career counselor I’d spoken with before explained, “That program is for high school graduates and people who’ve already earned their GED.”

I’d left high school as a sophomore in 1973. Four long years I waited and prepared to take the GED examination. On a hot day in late June of 1977, with the cut-grass tang of summer in the air, I slipped into a front row seat at the testing center; one of about twenty other people enveloped in the sterile classroom setting. The examiner explained that talking was expressly prohibited.

The all-day test was given in seven parts: Language Arts (writing)—50 questions, 75 minutes. Language Arts (reading) 40 questions, 65 minutes. Social Studies—50 questions, 70 minutes. Science—50 questions, 80 minutes. Math (calculator allowed)—25 questions, 45 minutes. Math (calculator not allowed)—25 questions, 45 minutes. US Constitution—45 questions, 60 minutes.

Laurie after passing her GED
Laurie after passing her GED

Head high with a face-splitting grin, I left the facility with every confidence that I’d aced the test. Six weeks later I received my GED certificate in the mail. And that was just the beginning. Over time I earned my associates degree, then bachelors, followed by a masters degree. Finally, two weeks before my fiftieth birthday, I sat and defended my PhD thesis.

Hard-wired for buoyancy and tenacious as a terrier, when I set my mind on something I go after it with tremendous resolve. It took a while, but I eventually went from GED to PhD.

You might be wondering why I ran away from home. Ah, that’s another story…

LAURIE BUCHANAN BIO:

Board Certified with the American Association of Drugless Practitioners, Laurie Buchanan is a holistic health practitioner and transformation life coach. With the philosophy of “Whatever you are not changing, you are choosing,” Laurie works with the whole person, helping them turn intention into action; bridging the gap between where they are, and where they want to be — body, mind, and spirit. Please join Laurie on Twitter @HolEssence, and please like her on Facebook.

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SONIA MARSH SAYS: I know your story will motivate someone to keep going with their education. I remember struggling to “memorize” certain subjects in school, without understanding the concepts. Congratulations on getting your PhD., and not giving up.


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Comments

  1. Sonia Marsh says

    December 30, 2013 at 7:07 am

    Laurie,

    Your story made me feel like that little girl sitting in the classroom, struggling to learn certain subjects and feeling, “stupid.” Thank you so much for sharing what you went through.
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    • Laurie Buchanan says

      December 30, 2013 at 4:35 pm

      Sonia – Thank you for sharing my story here in your wonderful space.
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  2. Jeffrey Willius says

    December 30, 2013 at 10:07 am

    Laurie was already a source of great inspiration — this makes her even more so. Quite a woman!
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    • Laurie Buchanan says

      December 30, 2013 at 4:35 pm

      Jeffrey – Thank you so much for your kind words.
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  3. Muriel says

    December 30, 2013 at 11:39 am

    What an inspirational story! Thanks for sharing this, Laurie, it was exactly what I needed to finish 2013. Just like you, I believe that, if we are motivated, the sky is the limit! You have proven it!
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    • Laurie Buchanan says

      December 30, 2013 at 4:37 pm

      Muriel – Great minds think alike — cheers to motivation!
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  4. Sandi White says

    December 30, 2013 at 7:08 pm

    Laurie has been my friend for several years now and has never failed to impress me with her determination and perseverance. Once she sets her mind and lays her hand to a task, you may consider it done. She has surprised me in times past with her ability to take almost any situation head-on…and in the coolest, most common sense manner possible. She is a Wonder and an inspiration to all who know her.
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  5. Laurie Buchanan says

    December 31, 2013 at 5:23 am

    Sandi – Well, you’ve certainly managed to blow me out of the water this morning — I’m grinning from ear to ear! Thank you so much for your kind words.
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  6. Suzi Banks Baum says

    January 2, 2014 at 11:09 am

    What a great tale of triumph. I vote for you Laurie, hands down.
    You are a great example of tenacious joy.
    Thank you for sharing here Sonia.
    xo Suzi
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    • Laurie Buchanan says

      January 3, 2014 at 12:57 pm

      Suzi – Thank you so much! Please know that I get inspired every time I read a post on your wonderful blog: Laundry Line Divine
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  7. Lada Ray says

    January 2, 2014 at 1:20 pm

    Great job, Laurie 🙂

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    • Laurie Buchanan says

      January 3, 2014 at 12:58 pm

      Lada – thank you, Thank You, THANK YOU 🙂
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  8. Carol Bodensteiner says

    January 3, 2014 at 8:27 am

    “from GED to PHD” – Now that’s a story worth sharing. Congratulations on your success, Laurie.
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    • Laurie Buchanan says

      January 3, 2014 at 12:59 pm

      Carol – Thank you. I’m heading over to your Historical Fiction Reading Challenge soon!
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  9. Kathy says

    January 3, 2014 at 11:36 am

    I vote for Laurie! She inspires us to never give up.

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  10. Laurie Buchanan says

    January 3, 2014 at 12:59 pm

    Kathy – You made me smile. Thank you!
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  11. Leanne Dyck says

    January 3, 2014 at 6:50 pm

    Laurie, thank you for sharing your success story. You have every right to be very proud.
    I have dyslexia and so am in touch with both feeling like you’re stupid and in learning that I acquire knowledge in a different way than others.
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    • Laurie Buchanan says

      January 3, 2014 at 7:43 pm

      Leanne – Once we find our own way of learning, we’re off to the races! Thank you voting – I appreciate YOU!
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  12. Teecee says

    January 18, 2014 at 5:44 am

    Awesome story, Laurie!

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  14. Tina Hill says

    January 17, 2014 at 7:40 am

    Laurie, I am just getting caught up on email after being out of the loop. Congratulations! Your story is very inspiring and motivates me to keep on living my dream.

    Tina R. Hill
    Chairwoman
    McHenry County Board

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