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Vote for your Favorite July 2013 “My Gutsy Story®”

August 1, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 1 Comment

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Our first moving story of the month was from Liz Burgess.

Liz Burgess Head
Liz Burgess

Liz reminds us that learning to be patient and to accept change is not easy, and her story about “letting go,” is inspiring.

Our second story this month is by Sharon Leaf.

Sharon Leaf
Sharon Leaf

Sharon’s story has two important messages: Are you going to let fear rule you?  You don’t need a lot of stuff to be happy—four gym lockers will do.

Our third story is by Patti Hall.

Patti Hall
Patti Hall

Patti has such an inspiring story about how she focused on her passion to write while overcoming the loss of her husband.

Our fourth story is by Destiny Allison.

Destiny Allison
Destiny Allison

Another inspiring story about how Destiny turned her love for sculpting into a profitable business, and how she found a way to juggle her business and home life with three kids, as a single mother.

Our fifth story is by Donald Dempsey.

Donald Dempsey and his son
Donald Dempsey and his son

Considering Donald’s own childhood, with an abusive mother, I found his story fascinating, especially how much he wanted to give his son everything he did not have as a child.

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“My Gutsy Story®” Sharon Leaf

July 8, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 27 Comments

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I Sailed the Seven Seas on a World War II Ship…

and lived to tell about it

~You cannot discover new oceans until you are willing to lose sight of the shore~

I inherited my love to travel from my father, and I had once dreamed of traveling the world for God, but now divorced, and a single mom, I shelved that dream … until I married my prince charming in my forty-second year.

After the fall of Soviet Union Communism in 1991, Rob and I were invited to assist in the new Christian schools in Estonia and Russia.  My mind raced, Go to Russia?  Are you crazy?   Then a Voice asked, are you going to let fear rule you?   Shoulders back, I took a deep breath of faith, blew out every ounce of fear, and in the dead of winter, I was on the way to my first international journey.  From Tallinn to Tartu, from Leningrad to Moscow, for two weeks I was like a little girl in a candy store, soaking in new traditions, unfamiliar languages, delicious foods, but best of all, meeting warm and caring people.

After returning home, we felt God calling us to attend an international Bible college in Sweden, but I reasoned away the idea.  We can’t leave our jobs, our ministry, and our family for a year.  Then one night as I struggled for sleep, a challenging thought came.  Don’t you want to live your dream?   Faith swept over my tired body, and in the summer of ’91 two expats leased their home, sold their cars, bid their family and friends farewell, and boarded a jet plane for Sweden.

Our year was full of learning, from books to museums, but it was the people who taught us valuable lessons.  I’m grateful to my Swedish neighbor who took me shopping at the centrum market and showed me that mayonnaise came in a tube instead of a jar.  Later that evening after brushing his teeth, Rob informed me that Swedish toothpaste was yummy…tasted like mayonnaise.  Oops.

After graduation, we toured Israel, and then joined a team in St. Petersburg to live for a month on the former Youth Communist propaganda train to distribute humanitarian aid throughout Siberia.  There we were—twenty-five Russians, twenty-five Swedes, and the two Americans.  Via interpreters, English was the main language spoken, but there were moments when I had to flee to our tiny cabin to escape the constant blending of Russian, Swedish, and Swenglish—a humorous combination of Swedish and English—to keep my head from spinning off.  And heaven forbid if I left the train without my day’s supply of toilet tissue tucked in my pockets!  (I learned the value of used newspapers, which most hospitals, orphanages, and homes supplied upon request).

The Russian’s kindness made every inconvenience fade and erased my doubts of traveling in the once-feared country, but I couldn’t wait to touch American soil.  There would always be short trips, but to live abroad again?  Never.  Until …

Two years later a flyer crossed our path asking for volunteers to work on a WWII ship that was moored in Seattle, Washington, whose sole purpose would be to rescue Russian Jews from the Black Sea to Israel.  Rob was ready to set sail.  Not me.  I didn’t want anything to upset my comfortable lifestyle, and I certainly had no desire to live on an old troop transporter ship the government had stored in mothballs after the war.  She had only 93 running days, so there was no guarantee that her maiden voyage could even make the journey from Seattle to Stockholm, much less sail to the Black Sea and Israel.

But I wondered, Could this dangerous assignment mean an adventure of a lifetime?  Hmm, I guess this is where faith must kick–again.  So in spite of my fear of water and the unknown condition of the ship, the expats once again packed up, leased the house, quit jobs, sold cars, and bid farewell to family and their safe harbor.  God had new oceans waiting.

As we sailed the seven seas, it didn’t take this lady long to fall in love with another lady, the MS Restoration.  However, it was sometimes a stretch to love-thy-neighbor while living in such close quarters…a cabin large enough for a bed and four gym-size lockers, sharing dining experiences with a forty-plus crew in a small troop mess that often smelled like diesel oil.  I often asked while cleaning stained toilets and hairy showers, God, what am I doing here?

Fourteen months on board the Restoration reminded me of life’s simple lessons:  You don’t need a lot of stuff to be happy—four gym lockers will do.  Instead of criticizing, (why do the Swedish cooks serve pancakes and—yuk—pea soup for lunch?), take time to understand their customs.  Instead of judging (why does she have special privileges?), practice patience and find out.  And no matter how small, boring, or unthankful the task, it is a very big, exciting, and thankful event in God’s eyes.  Today, I remind myself of these lessons as I clean my own toilets and showers.

Sharon leaf Jews on boat

You’re probably wondering why I had to live on a WWII ship to learn these simple lessons.  I asked myself that question often until one night while we were sailing across the Black Sea.  As I gazed up at the stars, a familiar Voice spoke to my heart.  I have chosen you to be a small part of my big plan to help bring my people home to Israel in these last days.  From that moment, I felt honored to have been on this amazing journey.

Sharon Leaf boat

The Titanic was called the ship of dreams, but the MS Restoration was our ship of miracles.  Food, ship parts, bedding for the crew and Russian Jews, donations for fuel–the list goes on–showed up expectantly.  But the greatest miracle was our changed hearts.  Living on the Restoration truly restored everyone’s faith in God, in human kindness, in relationships, and in faith for forgotten dreams.  And the dreams continue.

 Sharon Cook Leaf Book Cover

Read Lady and the Sea for my complete story.  I wish you smooth sailing and oceans of blessings … and enjoy your journey!  www.sharonleaf.com

 

SHARON LEAF: Born in South Carolina and raised in California, since turning forty, Sharon Leaf has traveled to sixteen countries, lived in Sweden to attend an international Bible college, traveled on the Trans-Siberian Railway, and sailed 26,000 miles on the WWII ship, MS Restoration, to transport Russian Jews from Russia to Israel.  She received a degree in theology at sixty, proving that it’s never too late to fulfill another dream.  Lady and the Sea is Sharon’s debut novel.  She lives in South Carolina with her husband and keeps busy swimming, zumba-ing, and writing short stories (author Linda Kozar’s Moving Tales). www.sharonleaf.com

SONIA MARSH SAYS: What fascinating life experiences you’ve had, and there are two phrases that stuck in my head. 1). Are you going to let fear rule you?   Shoulders back, I took a deep breath of faith, blew out every ounce of fear. 2). You don’t need a lot of stuff to be happy—four gym lockers will do. So true Sharon.

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Travel: The Difference between Sightseeing and Sight Thinking

May 30, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 7 Comments

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Photo credit: http://www.internationalnomads.com/

Travel means different things to different people; from relaxing on a beach to sight-seeing, to shopping for souvenirs, but what fascinates me are questions such as:

  • How much of it are we really absorbing?
  • How much do we really see?
  • How much do we really understand about the culture around us?

At a recent TED-x conference at UCI (University of California, Irvine,) the focus was on the “global perspective” of travel and what it truly means to travel.  The audience was challenged to think about the “global perspective” of travel.

I believe there is a shift in the way we view travel today, and this shift is happening with the millennials, and spreading to the boomer generation; their parents.

The main difference with young people who travel, is that they do so

  • without a plan
  • travel frugally
  • are entrepreneurs
  • savvy with social media
  • enter contests
  • get media attention

Graham Michael Freeman, a 24-year-old UCI graduate student, decided to go backpacking around the world for six months. He, and a couple of friends, literally spun the globe and pointed a finger, and wherever it landed, they decided to go.

During his TED-xUCIrvine talk, Graham emphasized the importance of:

“Giving yourself the freedom to discover new things along the way. Forget all the rules. Eat with your hands. Direction over destination.”

Many young people today combine their desire for understanding the  “global perspective” with the entrepreneur spirit. After traveling to countries such as Thailand, China and India, lived in a Maasai village in Kenya and swimming with great white sharks in South Africa, where Graham is originally from, they started a website Nomads In Touch, as a means to share their experiences with the world as they trekked through the world.

As with many travel bloggers today, social media is key for those who want to keep traveling and turn their passion for travel into a profession.

I think our youth have a great perspective on travel, and I believe we can learn from them. Here’s what Graham said.

“I want people to take that step back. To fully immerse yourself. Checking your expectations and comfort level at the door and putting yourself in a situation in life and experiencing it completely. Putting yourself in situations where you’re not just rushing from landmark to landmark or doing what you normally consider to be a vacation but allowing yourself to fully immersing yourself into a culture.”

Travel is no longer just about sightseeing, but about sight-thinking.

It’s easy to say, “Well Graham is young. He can take as much time off as he wants, that’s not my case with a job.” And perhaps you’re right, but as I say when I speak about “Gutsy Living,” there are always options in life, and we can always find an excuse to postpone our dreams.

So here’s what I’ve done in the last few days to satisfy my desire to learn about a new culture.

  • I signed up with Vaughan Town, to volunteer for 10 days in Spain. They pay for my hotel and in exchange, I help Spanish business people practice their English and as a bonus, I learn about the Spanish culture.
  • I Skyped memoir writer, Janet Givens, whom I met via Kathy Pooler’s blog interview, and asked her about her experience as a Peace Corps volunteer in Kazakhstan with her husband. She shared some helpful tips about the Peace Corps website and her two year experience. Another one of my strong “Gutsy” goals in life.

 What about you? Do you have a desire to immerse yourself in other cultures for a while, or does travel mean something else to you? Please comment below.

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3 Quick Videos from Paris and Copenhagen

May 27, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 12 Comments

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Pain au chocolat for you to enjoy

Since most of us are at home on this Memorial Day, I thought I would share some quick videos from my trip to Paris and Copenhagen. I took these a few days ago.

#1

Shopping at a market in the suburbs of Paris.

 

#2

A typical French metro with accordion player and a view of the Eiffel Tower on my way to The American Library in Paris.

 

#3

Happy Danes dancing on the pedestrian street in Copenhagen, A gold statue of a real person, and biking is a way of life in Denmark.

Winner of the May 2013 “My Gutsy Story®”

May 15, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 2 Comments

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Carol Bodensteiner WINNER

Congratulations to Carol Bodensteiner, winner of the May 2013, “My Gutsy Story®.” She wrote an inspiring story about giving up her career and following her passion. I love her phrase:

“It’s more important to be satisfied than to be successful.”

Carol Bodensteiner

In 2nd Place, we have the wonderful “My Gutsy Story®” of Jason Matthews. Another motivating story by Jason who took a major risk, leaving his lucrative career as a paint contractor, and followed his passion to write.

Jason Matthews

Jason Matthews Cover photo

In 3rd place we have the amazing story of Julia Prosser, written by her husband David Prosser. Julia passed away a few days before we posted his story, and she was true inspiration to many.

David Prosser
David Prosser

David and Julia Prosser

In 4th place we have the wonderful “Gutsy” Win Charles. Her message is to not focus on her disability, but on what we have in common.

Win Charles

Win’s energy and passion shines through everything she does. She is truly a “go-getter” and an inspiration to everyone.

In 5th place, we have an extremely “gutsy” Linda Kovic-Skow

Linda Kovic-Skow MGS Cover photo

Linda shares a great story about how she took a major risk as a young woman, and how it paid off.

Thank you so much to all five of you. You are all winners and have some wonderful stories and books to share with us.

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