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Get Paid as a Travel Blogger -LA Times Travel Show

January 26, 2014 by Sonia Marsh Leave a Comment

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Sonia Marsh and travel blogger Elaine Masters at LA Times Travel Show

Do you love to travel? What about travel writing?

As a travel fan, author and blogger, I find that Trade Day at the LA Times Travel Show is the place to learn what’s new and hot in the travel business.

I follow several travel bloggers, but did not know about professional organizations that link travel bloggers with the travel industry. The Professional Travel Bloggers Association (PTBA) is an organization created by the efforts of almost fifty travel bloggers over the past year or so. They have specific requirements to join:

  • For travel bloggers: a minimum of nine months blogging and more than 3,000 page views in the last thirty days on your website. The annual fee is $75.
  • For travel industry and PR members: there is no minimum statistical requirement. The fee for a group/company/DMO/organization that wants to join is $300 per year.

There are several lists of professional travel bloggers specializing in family travel, eco-travel, luxury travel, and many other categories, you can join.

  •  Navigatemediagroup.com
  • iAmbassador.com
  • Ecoadventuremedia.com
  •  Bestfamilytravelexperts.com

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Rob Holmes-Founder-Chief Storyteller GLP Films
Rob Holmes-Founder-Chief Storyteller GLP Films

Rob Holmes, founder and chief storyteller of GLP Films, spoke about “The Power of Storytelling–in Travel.”

Yes, even travel films and videos need authentic storytelling in order to engage their audiences.

Introducing GLP Films in a short video.


Holmes breaks down storytelling for film in a way that can help writers.

The Key Elements to storytelling:

  • Purpose
  • Journey
  • Location
  • Characters
  • Keywords (yes, that surprised me too!)

1). Purpose:

  • Ask yourself why am I telling this story?
  • Who am I going to target? (my audience)
  • What is the potential impact? (sales)

2). Journey:

  • What is the journey? (for example a great rafting trip)
  • What is the conflict? (to make it engaging)
  • What are the key themes in this journey or film?

3). Location:

  • You want diversity. What are the key locations?
  • How are the locations relevant to the characters?
  • Observe and obtain a diverse mix of shots.

4). Character:

  • Who are your characters?
  • What are their stories?
  • How can your audience connect?
  • In film-making, sometimes your best characters are not the CEO or employees, but some local character you didn’t expect.

5). Keywords:

  • Identify 10+ keywords or phrases to describe your story.
  • Research what your film partners, (or similar writers) are using as keywords.

What do you mean by keywords?

I asked Rob Holmes what he meant by keywords, and how to find new keywords for your content.

Rob suggested inviting 5-6 friends who know you well, and brainstorm. Ask them to come up with keywords that fit your theme. A glass of wine may help the process.

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A great story just like a great film, needs to be:

  • Powerful
  • Engage the audience
  • Educate (or entertain)
  • You need to take risks to make it unique
  • It needs to be perpetual (do not date it)

I was impressed with the quality of GLP films, and also the power of storytelling in film.

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Would you like to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” and get published in our 2nd anthology?

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Our January 2014 “My Gutsy Story®” series started with:

  1. Jon Magidsohn
  2. Gillian Jackson
  3. Eleanor Vincent

Monday, January 27th, Shirley Showalter will share his “My Gutsy Story®.”

VOTING for your favorite January 2014 “My Gutsy Story®” starts on January 30th and ends on February 12th. Winner will be announced on February 13th.

“Waiting for My Camel to Come Back” by Ian Mathie

December 16, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 19 Comments

Ian Mathie

The Camel at Ngiouri Well

“My Gutsy Story®” by Ian Mathie

I travelled south from the Bilma oasis, in the empty wastes of the Sahara, with a small Hausa salt trading caravan. We had been going five days when we reached the well at Ngiouri. Situated below a small hillock with a stone cairn on top, the well had not been visited by anyone else for some weeks, and we found it choked with windblown sand. It took us twelve hours digging, passing baskets of sand up a human chain to the surface for disposal, before we were able to get at the water which collected in a small cleft in the bedrock.

By the time we were able to begin watering our camels, I had developed a slight fever, but still had to wait for a drink as the animals are always watered first. The well’s refill time was slow so it took almost half an hour for each of the fifteen camels to drink before any of the humans got a drop. Being an outsider who had joined the caravan for my own convenience, my camel and I had to wait until almost the last.

By the time my turn came the fever had developed, and I was confused and fumbling on the verge of delirium.  When my camel had drunk the first of its intended two buckets of water, something spooked it and it shied away, wandering off into the darkness before I could get a firm grip on its lead rope. Everyone else was too preoccupied with making their own food and settling down for a good night’s sleep to notice. It was eighteen hours after arrival that I finally got a drink myself, having been without water since the previous morning when out original supply ran out.

When dawn came there was no sign of my camel, and the rest of the caravan was preparing to move on. Their party included old people who were in need of medical attention, and could not afford to delay. Hamidi, the caravan master, came to speak to me, saying they could not afford to delay. I would have to remain at the well until my camel came back, while the rest of them went on.

“Will it come back?” I asked.

“Oh, certainly,” he assured me. “A camel can only go nine days without drinking if it has had a full stomach. Yours had only had one bucket. It will be back before that as there is no other water within range. Camels can smell water from many miles away.” He said the pause would give me time to recover from the fever.

Hamidi also assured me that if anyone else found my camel they would bring it here. A white man travelling alone with a camel does not go unnoticed. I and my camel had aroused plenty of discussion at Bilma. Another caravan was due to follow this route four or five days behind us, so if all else failed I could continue my journey with them.

“Just be patient,” he said as he left me, and by noon the caravan had moved on and disappeared over the southern horizon.

Once I was on my own, I moved my camel saddle and baggage panniers onto the rising ground of the cairn topped hillock. Using a pair of four foot long poles, carried for the purpose, and a cotton sheet, I rigged an awning to provide shade, attaching the back to the saddle and weighting the corners with small stones collected from the desert around me. The shade was welcome in the rising heat, and the slightly elevated position enabled me to see some miles back down the route along which the next caravan from Bilma should come. It had the disadvantage of exposing me to the incessant grit-laden wind.

Late that afternoon as I dozed, I heard a familiar gurgling noise. I sat upright, expecting to see the second caravan arriving, but the shimmering desert was empty. When the sound came again, I scrambled from my shelter and looked around. Still there was nothing to see. It was only when I staggered further up the mound, and could look down the other side, that I saw the source of the sound.

A large bull camel was couched, its left foreleg bound with rope to stop it rising. When it saw me, it let out another gurgling bellow. It was completely alone and there was no sign of anyone camped nearby. I wondered where its owner was and how long it had been there. Had it been there before the caravan left? I had seen nobody else at the well, which was in full view of my awning.

It was quite possible the camel had been there for several days, and it had clearly not had a drink in that time. I lurched back to my awning, pulled out my canvas bucket and a half filled water skin, and dragged these over to where it sat. Its head came down immediately as I poured water into the bucket, and in seconds it had sucked this dry. I refilled it twice and as I pulled the bucked clear, the camel shook its head vigorously, its lips flapping and spraying frothy saliva in an ark which glistened in the bright sunlight.

Still not fully recovered from the fever, I lurched back to my shelter and lay down to rest. I awoke in the cool of predawn, feeling thirsty. My water skin was all bit empty, so I took it down to the well to refill it.

The wind, which never stops in this part of the desert, had deposited a generous pile of sand in the well, and it took me all morning to dig this out before I could get at the water. Even then it took the cleft a long time to refill each time I had taken a couple of bows full and decanted it into my water skin. The water was brackish, tasting very like Epsom Salts and I knew not to drink too much in one go or the results could be uncomfortable. It was almost dark by the time I dragged my full water skin out of the well, so I returned to my shelter, ate a few dates and rested.

For two more days I rested and waited. Each evening, when I climbed the hillock to look, the bull camel was still there, waiting patiently. It gurgled when it saw me, but made no effort to rise. After two days, feeling better myself, I gave it another drink.

On my seventh day at the well, the camel’s owner turned up, with two other camels and a small flock of scrawny goats. He watered his animals, thanked me for giving water to the bull and gave me a gourd of fresh goat’s milk. Then he bid me a safe journey and in minutes he and all his animals had disappeared over the horizon.

I sat, alone, through the heat of the day. Just before sunset my own camel came back. She sucked greedily at the first bucket of water I offered, and then, on a whim, I pulled the bucket aside and refused to give her more. I tucked the lead rope into her head collar and let her go. After a moment’s hesitation, she turned and ambled off into the desert as before.

Five days later there was still no sign of the second caravan from Bilma and I was beginning to wonder if I had made a very foolish mistake. As the sun kissed the western horizon, I heard a familiar gurgle. My camel had returned.

This time I watered her well and did not let her go.

Ian Mathie – Bio

Born in Scotland and taken to Africa aged three, Ian Mathie grew up in the bush. After short service as a pilot in the RAF, he returned to West Africa as a rural development officer. Well adapted to living in the bush, Ian worked with isolated societies, sharing their hardships and understanding cultures from the inside.

Following political changes, he returned to the UK and retrained as an industrial psychologist. Since then he has designed and run award winning personnel development programmes in UK, Europe and Africa.

Now restricted from travelling by a medical condition, he lives in south Warwickshire with his wife and dog, and writes books, mainly about Africa.

Ian Mathie - four books

Ian Mathie new book Sorceres
Soon to be published
  • Please check out Ian’s Website
  • You can Ian’s books on Amazon here.
  • The UK Amazon link is here.
  • Also on Goodreads and Facebook.
  • Not on Twitter.

SONIA MARSH SAYS: This is an unique “gutsy” story Ian. I think had I been in your place, I would not have let my camel wonder off. I know you have learned many life lessons from all your years in various parts of Africa. I truly enjoyed reading your first book, “Bride Price.”

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Our December 2013  stories have started with Marian Beaman and Fee Johnson, sharing their “My Gutsy Story®.” 

Ready For a Move? 3 Ways to Connect with the Locals

December 5, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 8 Comments

 

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Blue Heaven Restaurant in Key West, Florida

If you’re like me, you’ve probably spent a vacation in a sunny part of the world, and while sipping a cocktail said, “Duke (insert your loved one’s name) how would you like to live (insert location)?”

Duke and Sonia enjoying a tropical drink in Florida
Duke and Sonia enjoying a tropical drink in Florida

Now granted, these locations change as you mature, and while Cancun may be the place for you when you’re twenty-three,  Naples, Florida, may be the place for you when you’re a boomer trying to escape from Freeways to Flip-Flops.

So if you’re serious about the move, you’ll probably visit a few times, just to make sure you weren’t under the influence of too many tropical cocktails.

At home, you’ll spend hours on the internet looking at realtor.com, and zillow.com,  and then, if you’re like Duke and me:

You’ll hop on a plane to see the short sale that just came on the market.

Why? Because:

  • It’s such a good deal.
  • You will never be able to afford a house on the water canal again.
  • California is just too expensive to own a house on the water.
  • There’s a Home Depot in Naples, (unlike Belize) so you have plywood if a hurricane hits us.
  • You can always rent it out until you move.

If you’re responsible, which boomers are tend to be, you’ve researched other aspects like:

  • Finances
  • How your lifestyle will change
  • Traffic during rush hour
  • Jobs (do they even hire boomers?)
  • Gas prices (cheaper than California)
  • Food prices (supermarkets are the same but restaurants are much cheaper and their fish is so fresh compared to ours in California.)

There’s one important thing missing; something that will give you peace of mind before your final decision to move.

“How can I interview meet locals with similar interests to mine for coffee/lunch/dinner so I can dig down and get the scoop on what it’s really like to live here?”

So here’s what we did to connect with people prior to our 3rd vacation in Naples.

  1. Find MeetUp groups related to your interests prior to visiting, or create your own MeetUp and ask people to join.
  2. Find specific people online with similar interests and e-mail them before you visit. Arrange to meet them for coffee or lunch.
  3. Connect with someone you already know who lives there, or ask your friends if they know someone in that location you can e-mail ahead of time to ask questions.

We looked for Meetups online. You can search for Meetups in different cities in the U.S. You can even create your own. Since Duke is interested in indie films and people with similar interests, he organized a MeetUp at The Pub, in Mercato, Naples, where we had a wonderful evening chatting with other writers, TV and video production people.

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MeetUp Group in Naples, FL.

I looked online for local authors and writing groups, such as The Gulf Coast Writers’ Association, and other MeetUp writers’ groups, and  I found Christine Otis, a local author, and e-mailed her. She had moved from PA, less than a year ago and said she loves Naples. This was so encouraging for me to meet her and learn about all the writing groups in the area. We met for lunch, and she was so helpful and encouraging.

Christine Otis, author, and me at the Mercato for lunch.
Christine Otis, author, and me at the Mercato for lunch.

I also had the pleasure of meeting Ed Robinson and his wife Kim, on their boat “Leap of Faith.” We met online and he submitted a “My Gutsy Story.” Ed and Kim, also made us feel comfortable about living in Florida.

 

Ed and Kim Robinson with Duke and me.
Ed and Kim Robinson with Duke and me.

And finally, we had the privilege of meeting science-fiction, romance writer, Linnea Sinclair, and her husband for dinner one evening in Naples. Duke connected with Linnea a couple of years ago, when he made “The Down Home Alien Blues”(watch trailer) movie, based on one of her novels.

Linnea Sinclair
Linnea Sinclair

As I strolled on the beach in Naples early one morning, I noticed a woman wearing a San Diego sweatshirt. I asked her, “Are you from San Diego?” She said, “No, but we used to live in Huntington Beach, CA.” After chatting for ten-minutes, she said exactly what I was hoping to hear, “The quality of life is so much better here.”

So when are we moving?

Here are 4 short videos I took in Florida:

1). Bonita Springs Beach, FL November-2013

2). Downtown Key West, FL November -2013

3). Butterfly Conservatory, Key West, FL November -2013

4). Blue Heaven Restaurant, Key West, November-2013

 

It’s time to vote for your favorite one of four November “My Gutsy Story®” submissions on the sidebar.
Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

NOW is the time to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” which may be included in our 2nd ANTHOLOGY.

Please view our 1st Published Anthology here.

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You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

 

Rising Above the Pettiness to Focus on the Positive by Marian Beaman

December 2, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 48 Comments

Marian Beam

“Gutsy in Ukraine”

My Gutsy Story® by Marian Beaman

The gutsiest part of our visit to Ukraine in 2011 was that we didn’t use the “return” part of our ticket 4 days into the trip.

Why, you ask, would you want to leave a country with affectionate, artistic people? With gold-domed cathedrals? With an astonishing exchange rate of 8.97 greve / $ 1.00 US dollar? With “free” lodging at the home of our host, for heaven’s sake?

 

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Gold Domed Cathedrals

Well, some background to start. At the invitation of our friend Margot, who runs a charity fund in Ukraine, my husband Cliff and I have agreed to present 20 performances in the public schools of Kiev as a gesture of good-will, all work pro bono. Cliff does art and music shows with historical, character-building, and environmental themes.

I am asked to give short lessons in English using plastic eggs to teach the names of colors. Like children everywhere, they are eager to learn but struggle to twist their tongues around combinations of sounds unfamiliar to their native Russian: pink became pinnnngk to them. I also assist students in cleaning sticks of chalk after each multi-media performance and then make the evening meal at Margot’s apartment.

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English lesson with children

We have known Margot, our host and guide, since she was 8-years-old, when we were newlyweds. We have a quasi sister/daughter relationship with her. Over the years, we have shared meals on her furloughs home to Florida. In Ukraine, she has built close relationships with her staff of six who help her design curriculum for use in schools and churches. Children she interacts with adore her warmth and creativity. But from the beginning, Margot alternates between approval and hostility for my husband Cliff, a baffling, unexplainable response from someone who is the beneficiary of free programs along with receiving funds for meals and transportation for her staff as we travel. Although we came at her invitation, we have to wonder, “Does she consider Cliff a threat for some reason? Is she envious? Something else? Fortunately, her staff is most gracious, the school children so very appreciative in Kiev, Zhitomer, and neighboring villages. Standing ovations for Cliff’s performances with requests for autographs. Grateful administrators.

And there is a lot to love here culturally: “Zorba, the Greek” ballet at the Kiev Opera House, a magnificent edifice shaped like a fancy cake, the Moscow Circus performers—even their paper money is decorative. And art everywhere! Walls of World War II-vintage schools feature cute, flowery cutouts to celebrate spring. Students are all decked out in formal outfits for class: boys in suits, girls in black and white outfits, the older ones with stiletto heels. (Odd by American standards but attractive nonetheless.)

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Student Cliff Easel

Yes, there are hardships, some anticipated, and some not. At the whim of city fathers, the hot water in Kiev is turned off for days on end. Everywhere we go, the toilets are of the low-down variety: Let’s just say I’m glad I practiced my squats in the gym before the trip.

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Toilet

In school rest-rooms, there rarely is soap, and I carry sections of toilet paper in my fanny pack everywhere we go. There is absolutely NO toilet paper in any of the school restrooms we visit. In fact, prior to the trip, Cliff’s easel and accoutrements including lecturer’s chalk, were all cushioned with dozens of rolls of toilet tissue for us and the staff, packed to sail on a freighter through the Black Sea and shipped into Kiev before our arrival. Once we have to pay 56 kopeks in Sevastopol to use the urinal, but there is toilet paper provided and a woman who mops up!

Beyond the hardship and adjustment to cultural differences, I treasure the new friends I meet: Anya and Sergei whose hearts are big enough to adopt several children from the bulging orphanages in the city in addition to their own brood. Good-natured Demetri, who translates Cliff’s remarks into Russian. Roman, who knows how to talk himself out of a traffic ticket. Then there’s Alona and Tanya who should be awarded gold stars for hospitality. A lovely dinner at the home of Pastor Peter and his wife Lilly. Petite, unassuming Dr. Olga, M. D. and PhD, researcher with mice, who escorts us all around Crimea near the end of our stay, touring the Tsar’s palace, visiting Yalta, and learning that the Black Sea is actually bright blue!

 

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Olga

Miraculously our trip continued beyond the fourth day to embrace a culture we may never have experienced otherwise and friendships that continue to this day. We get updates from many of these new-found friends. In fact, Roman is one of my friends on Facebook! Lesson learned? Rise above the pettiness and concentrate on the positive—a lesson that apparently I needed to re-learn.

We fly to Paris on the return trip. At the Charles de Gaulle Airport, we go to the transfer desk by tram but find a long queue. When I face the agent, I practice my wobbly French to ask directions to the gate: “Quel dirreccion est la porte trente-deux?” She replies sweetly, “Prenez l’escalier derriere vous.” Okay, it’s behind me and up a flight of stairs.

“Magnifique,” her smile says. And that’s how I remember our trip to Ukraine.

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Marian Longenecker Beaman’s life has been characterized by re-invention: Pennsylvania Mennonite girl becomes traveling artist’s wife in Florida, then English professor with credits in the Journal of the Forum on Public Policy published by Oxford University Press. Along with my work as a community activist leading a neighborhood to take on Wal-Mart expansion, I am a writer and blogger in this second phase of my career. Fitness training and Pilates classes at the gym have become a metaphor for my mind-flexing experience as a writer, mining stories from my past along with reflections on current events.

Please visit her website “Plain and Fancy Girl.” Join Marian on Twitter @martabeam, and on Facebook.
SONIA MARSH SAYS: What a story Marian! That was pretty Gutsy of you and Cliff to stay in the Ukraine and teach English to the children as well as present 20 performances in the public schools of Kiev. I have often felt like staying in a country for a few months after visiting. It seems that you learned as much, if not more than the children, and bonded with new friends.
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It’s time to vote for your favorite one of four November “My Gutsy Story®” submissions on the sidebar.
Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

NOW is the time to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” which may be included in our 2nd ANTHOLOGY.

Please view our 1st Published Anthology here.

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You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

To Live Life, I Cannot Fear Change by Boyd Lemon

November 18, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 6 Comments

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Winter

At age sixty-six, I had lived my whole life in California, most of it on the coast, where the difference between summer and winter is about ten degrees. Some might consider such a climate ideal, and I suppose it is, but I yearned to experience the four seasons. I decided, if not now, when?

I sold my house and sold, gave away or stored most of my possessions, including my car. I rented an apartment in the Back Bay of Boston, sight unseen, and shipped my remaining possessions before I got on a plane, and feeling the rush of freedom, said goodbye to California.

On the plane, a redeye, I knew before the wheels left the ground that I wouldn’t sleep. My mind and body were overflowing with that combination of excitement and fear that took me to the precipice of dysfunction. I labored through those feelings with a firsthand understanding of the workings of human emotion I had recently read about––that fear and excitement result in the same activity within the brain. I feared the cold weather that this California boy had never experienced, the loneliness of knowing only one person in a strange city and a culture that I knew was far different from California.

Upon stepping out of the taxi in front of my apartment building, I slipped on the ice and fell on my ass. Welcome to Boston.

A few days later I awoke at first light, sat up and looked out the window. The world was white. Sheets of snow blew diagonally by my window. My first Nor’ Easter in all its fierceness had been blowing its ice and snow through the night. No sidewalk or street showed through. I could barely make out the top of the yellow fireplug two stories below. Some undeciphered perversity in me wanted to get out there. I dressed while coffee was brewing. After savoring the aroma and taste of the warm coffee sweetened with lots of Stevia, I was even more antsy to get out. This was the real east coast, never before experienced by this California boy, genuine Boston. On top of my regular clothes I donned my Red Sox sweatshirt, jeans–already had on long underwear––and wool socks, then the orange wool scarf my daughter Marsha knitted me last year, my North Face winter coat and heavy, water resistant shoes. I grabbed my ski gloves and keys, locked the door and pulled on the gloves.

Stepping out of the front door of the building, I pulled up the hood of my coat, covering my head and face except my eyes, mouth and nose. I discerned right away that it wouldn’t be wise to try to walk in the deep snow of the unplowed sidewalk.

I felt nothing cold at first, as I trudged down the middle of Haviland Street. The air was thick white. Even the black letters forming “Berklee College of Music” down the street were white.  When I got to Massachusetts Avenue (“Mass Ave” to Bostonians), the snowplows were out, their huge blades pushing mountains of snow against the curb. A few cars followed the plow. My feet sank three or four inches into the snow. Warm in all my paraphernalia, I felt nothing much but a numb nose and the flexing of the muscles in my legs as I pushed and pulled my feet in and out of the snow. Paying no attention to the signal lights, but watching the plows and the cars, I crossed Mass Ave and then Boylston and headed for Newbury, fashion alley. The cold air infused me with energy like Southern California weather never had. I could see through the snow for about a block.

On Newbury dozens of men pushed portable snowplows, clearing the sidewalks for the shoppers who would flood the area in a few hours. I had to walk in the street because most of the sidewalks were still deep in snow or occupied by the portable plows. An occasional dog walker appeared like an apparition out of the white. A jogger glided slowly down the middle of the street. Snow hung from the trees like bleached cotton candy. No green showed through on the pines. Bushes looked like a fancy dessert. Everywhere silence pervaded. All sound and even the smells of the city seemed to be absorbed by the snow. A neighborhood that was usually loud with traffic, sirens, horns and people was as quiet as a cemetery. The motorized plows had not yet come to Newbury. I was hungry, but most of the restaurants didn’t open for brunch for another hour, and I didn’t feel like usual breakfast fare. I turned up Dartmouth to go over to Boylston, where Legal Seafood might be open for brunch.

Thoughts of a hot bowl of clam chowder made me trudge a little faster, probably too fast for safety on the slick street. My face started to sting, like tiny electric shocks on my skin. The snow had turned to raining ice, but the prickly feeling on my skin brightened my spirits more. I really am perverted, I thought, as a young man lumbered by me, uttering to nobody in particular, “This really sucks.” I thought it was glorious.

Boom—a huge block of snow slid off the roof of the nineteenth century Public Library just behind me. Boylston had been plowed, and traffic crept down the street, so I had to walk on the sidewalks that had not yet been shoveled or plowed. My legs were tired and weakened from pushing and pulling through the snow. Nothing was open except Trinity Church and Starbucks.

As I lifted one leg and then the other out of the snow, the Prudential Center and Legal Seafood loomed ahead. It continued to rain ice. My whole face was numb. Time to go in, I thought, and I pushed the revolving door. A blast of warm air hit me in the face. I must admit it felt good to remove all my outer paraphernalia and sit down at the bar at Legal Seafood.

“What would you like to drink?” asked Lacy, the server.

“A glass of Champagne,” I said, grinning.

After three years in Boston I moved to Paris, having learned that if I really want to partake in what life has to offer, I mustn’t fear change.

BOYD LEMON: After a stellar 40-year career as a nationally recognized attorney, Boyd Lemon discovered his passion, writing, and pursued it in the idyllic coastal town of Ventura, California; the literary, art and music scenes of Boston; a Bohemian year on the Left Bank in Paris; and finally by the bucolic rivers and forests of St. Marys, Georgia, where he currently lives.  Boyd’s newest book is Retirement: A Memoir and Guide.  He has published six other books and is now working on his first novel.  He has four adult children and four grandchildren.  His second passion is travel, and he has visited six of the seven continents.

Here is Boyd’s latest book:

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Eat, Walk, Write: An American Senior’s Year of Adventure in Paris and Tuscany
Boyd Lemon Digging Deep
Digging Deep: A Writer Uncovers His Marriages, a memoir about the author’s journey to understand his role in the destruction of his three marriages
 
And four other books.
 
Check out Boyd Lemon’s Amazon Author Page for more information:
 
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