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“My Gutsy Story®” Sharon Leaf

July 8, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 27 Comments

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I Sailed the Seven Seas on a World War II Ship…

and lived to tell about it

~You cannot discover new oceans until you are willing to lose sight of the shore~

I inherited my love to travel from my father, and I had once dreamed of traveling the world for God, but now divorced, and a single mom, I shelved that dream … until I married my prince charming in my forty-second year.

After the fall of Soviet Union Communism in 1991, Rob and I were invited to assist in the new Christian schools in Estonia and Russia.  My mind raced, Go to Russia?  Are you crazy?   Then a Voice asked, are you going to let fear rule you?   Shoulders back, I took a deep breath of faith, blew out every ounce of fear, and in the dead of winter, I was on the way to my first international journey.  From Tallinn to Tartu, from Leningrad to Moscow, for two weeks I was like a little girl in a candy store, soaking in new traditions, unfamiliar languages, delicious foods, but best of all, meeting warm and caring people.

After returning home, we felt God calling us to attend an international Bible college in Sweden, but I reasoned away the idea.  We can’t leave our jobs, our ministry, and our family for a year.  Then one night as I struggled for sleep, a challenging thought came.  Don’t you want to live your dream?   Faith swept over my tired body, and in the summer of ’91 two expats leased their home, sold their cars, bid their family and friends farewell, and boarded a jet plane for Sweden.

Our year was full of learning, from books to museums, but it was the people who taught us valuable lessons.  I’m grateful to my Swedish neighbor who took me shopping at the centrum market and showed me that mayonnaise came in a tube instead of a jar.  Later that evening after brushing his teeth, Rob informed me that Swedish toothpaste was yummy…tasted like mayonnaise.  Oops.

After graduation, we toured Israel, and then joined a team in St. Petersburg to live for a month on the former Youth Communist propaganda train to distribute humanitarian aid throughout Siberia.  There we were—twenty-five Russians, twenty-five Swedes, and the two Americans.  Via interpreters, English was the main language spoken, but there were moments when I had to flee to our tiny cabin to escape the constant blending of Russian, Swedish, and Swenglish—a humorous combination of Swedish and English—to keep my head from spinning off.  And heaven forbid if I left the train without my day’s supply of toilet tissue tucked in my pockets!  (I learned the value of used newspapers, which most hospitals, orphanages, and homes supplied upon request).

The Russian’s kindness made every inconvenience fade and erased my doubts of traveling in the once-feared country, but I couldn’t wait to touch American soil.  There would always be short trips, but to live abroad again?  Never.  Until …

Two years later a flyer crossed our path asking for volunteers to work on a WWII ship that was moored in Seattle, Washington, whose sole purpose would be to rescue Russian Jews from the Black Sea to Israel.  Rob was ready to set sail.  Not me.  I didn’t want anything to upset my comfortable lifestyle, and I certainly had no desire to live on an old troop transporter ship the government had stored in mothballs after the war.  She had only 93 running days, so there was no guarantee that her maiden voyage could even make the journey from Seattle to Stockholm, much less sail to the Black Sea and Israel.

But I wondered, Could this dangerous assignment mean an adventure of a lifetime?  Hmm, I guess this is where faith must kick–again.  So in spite of my fear of water and the unknown condition of the ship, the expats once again packed up, leased the house, quit jobs, sold cars, and bid farewell to family and their safe harbor.  God had new oceans waiting.

As we sailed the seven seas, it didn’t take this lady long to fall in love with another lady, the MS Restoration.  However, it was sometimes a stretch to love-thy-neighbor while living in such close quarters…a cabin large enough for a bed and four gym-size lockers, sharing dining experiences with a forty-plus crew in a small troop mess that often smelled like diesel oil.  I often asked while cleaning stained toilets and hairy showers, God, what am I doing here?

Fourteen months on board the Restoration reminded me of life’s simple lessons:  You don’t need a lot of stuff to be happy—four gym lockers will do.  Instead of criticizing, (why do the Swedish cooks serve pancakes and—yuk—pea soup for lunch?), take time to understand their customs.  Instead of judging (why does she have special privileges?), practice patience and find out.  And no matter how small, boring, or unthankful the task, it is a very big, exciting, and thankful event in God’s eyes.  Today, I remind myself of these lessons as I clean my own toilets and showers.

Sharon leaf Jews on boat

You’re probably wondering why I had to live on a WWII ship to learn these simple lessons.  I asked myself that question often until one night while we were sailing across the Black Sea.  As I gazed up at the stars, a familiar Voice spoke to my heart.  I have chosen you to be a small part of my big plan to help bring my people home to Israel in these last days.  From that moment, I felt honored to have been on this amazing journey.

Sharon Leaf boat

The Titanic was called the ship of dreams, but the MS Restoration was our ship of miracles.  Food, ship parts, bedding for the crew and Russian Jews, donations for fuel–the list goes on–showed up expectantly.  But the greatest miracle was our changed hearts.  Living on the Restoration truly restored everyone’s faith in God, in human kindness, in relationships, and in faith for forgotten dreams.  And the dreams continue.

 Sharon Cook Leaf Book Cover

Read Lady and the Sea for my complete story.  I wish you smooth sailing and oceans of blessings … and enjoy your journey!  www.sharonleaf.com

 

SHARON LEAF: Born in South Carolina and raised in California, since turning forty, Sharon Leaf has traveled to sixteen countries, lived in Sweden to attend an international Bible college, traveled on the Trans-Siberian Railway, and sailed 26,000 miles on the WWII ship, MS Restoration, to transport Russian Jews from Russia to Israel.  She received a degree in theology at sixty, proving that it’s never too late to fulfill another dream.  Lady and the Sea is Sharon’s debut novel.  She lives in South Carolina with her husband and keeps busy swimming, zumba-ing, and writing short stories (author Linda Kozar’s Moving Tales). www.sharonleaf.com

SONIA MARSH SAYS: What fascinating life experiences you’ve had, and there are two phrases that stuck in my head. 1). Are you going to let fear rule you?   Shoulders back, I took a deep breath of faith, blew out every ounce of fear. 2). You don’t need a lot of stuff to be happy—four gym lockers will do. So true Sharon.

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Winner of the Flip-Flops & Painted toenails contest

July 4, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 4 Comments

 

Darlene Goodrich
Lois Joy Hofmann
Julie Cunningham
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Sharon Leaf

So on this special 4th July celebration, I’d like to pick two winners from our special flip-flop painted toenail contest. All the flip-flops were great, but we only received a few photos. I’ve decided on Darlene Goodrich with her Belizean blue morpho butterfly tattoo and Lois Joy Hofmann.

Bonnie Kassel has picked Sharon Leaf and Darlene Goodrich as her two winners.

Toenails Contest with Bonnie Kassel

Congratulations to you and please e-mail us your addresses and we shall send you our prizes. Here is the original contest with e-mail links for Bonnie and myself.

 

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Monday July 8th: Sharon Leaf’s “My Gutsy Story®”

“My Gutsy Story®” Liz Burgess

July 1, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 25 Comments

Liz Burgess Head

Time To Let Go

I had a five-hour drive to let reality sink in. I just left great friends and a job that I loved, a house full of memories and the feel of warm hugs from my kids at a moment’s notice.  After 17 years, I was moving to a new city to be with my husband in a new home, and all I had with me was the dog and my clothes.  Oh, and I was six months into a 12-Step program for food addiction. What the hell was I thinking? I was thinking that I didn’t bring enough tissues!

Ten years ago, my husband was offered a job in Boston and I refused to leave.  I told him, “I’m not pulling the kids out of school and away from their friends.”  I also didn’t want to leave my friends, especially since I had already done that once before.  The kids don’t really remember that move.  I, however, do remember it and how desperately I missed my friends and family.  It took me two years to finally feel “at home” in that new house.   I now had to go through finding that feeling of being at home all over again.

My new home is a one-bedroom apartment (a far cry from my four-bedroom house with a basement and huge backyard).  The new place sits on a busy street, with all of busy sound effects that traffic can bring. I had forgotten the lack of privacy one has with common-wall neighbors.  If I can hear them cough or sneeze, they surely can hear my conversations with the dog, on the phone, or with my husband.  It’s amazing what I’ve learned about them without any exchange of conversation.

I chose to make this move because of my prior refusal, and the fact that the timing seemed good for everyone involved.  The kids were almost all out (or wanting to be) on their own, I was going to have three months of down time (I worked at a public school) and it seemed like a good time to start the “empty nest” phase of my life.  By making the move, I would not be able to fall back into old habits of enabling either my children or myself.  It was time for me to grow up. I needed this fresh start, even if I didn’t want it!

Finding a job was difficult. Filing for unemployment was out of the question as I had never worked in the new state; and I couldn’t collect from the old state since I no longer lived there. I was fortunate to get hired for holiday help in retail and they allowed me to stay on after the season was finished.  It’s not my dream job, but it IS a job.  I feel very fortunate to have one!

I’ve been in my new home for about a year now, and still feel as though it is temporary.  I’ve kept my old driver’s license, car registration, and have yet to begin moving any of my stuff from the old house “just in case.”  Letting go is not one of my strong points, but I am learning.  Working the Steps of my program of recovery has helped me let go of many things I thought I would have with me forever.  Every now and then I catch a glimpse of the light ahead and am able to shed one more layer of something unnecessary in my life, including some bad habits, some weight and some really nasty feelings.

Anyone who is working a program of recovery knows the range of feelings that one can experience.  Some days are filled with agony, white-knuckling and despair.  On the other hand, the good days are filled with joy, hope and sense of well being that makes life full of adventure and new possibilities.  My program, and the people I’ve come to know through it, has been my saving grace.

When I start to feel a little sorry for myself, I look for another glimpse of light and remember how far I’ve come, and how the difficulty of letting go has eased. I thank God for texting and facebook, as they both give me the feeling of connection.  I now rely a little more on the Big Guy in the Sky and try to have more faith and patience.  The answers will come when I’m supposed to know them.  The dream job will appear when I’m ready for it. The people who mean the most to me will not be far, even if it is a bit of a drive.  It’s all going to be okay.

LIZ BURGESS: Born and raised in Southern California, Liz can still conjure up the smells of the beach in a heartbeat.  While raising four children, she began documenting their antics and in the process realized that writing was just as enjoyable as eating chocolate. Liz has been writing all of her life, but only recently began taking herself seriously.   Her blog, “No Excuses-Musings of a Procrastinator” began as a self-improvement commitment, and has been a terrific platform for improving her writing, networking with other writers, and stepping outside of her comfort zone, all of which have been very rewarding.  http://noexcuses318.blogspot.com.

You can connect with Liz Burgess on Facebook, or via e-mail: missliz318@charter.net

SONIA MARSH SAYS: I think your statement, “When I start to feel a little sorry for myself, I look for another glimpse of light and remember how far I’ve come, and how the difficulty of letting go has eased,”  will resonate with many readers. Learning to be patient and to accept change is not easy, and we need to be reminded about this.

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Vote For Your Favorite June 2013 “My Gutsy Story®”

June 27, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 1 Comment

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The voting starts right now for your favorite June 2013 “My Gutsy Story®.” You have 2 weeks to vote. The winner will be announced on July 11th and gets to select a prize from our sponsors.

These are the first 4 stories to be included in our 2nd Anthology. You are invited to our GREAT LAUNCH PARTY for  our first “My Gutsy Story®” Anthology at the South Coast Village Regency Movie Theater, Costa Mesa, CA, on September 26th, from 6-9 pm. Keep checking “Gutsy Living” blog for updates on sponsors, etc.

Scroll Down on Sidebar (right above the Freeways to Flip-Flops Book Cover) to Vote. Only ONE vote each.

Our first moving story of the month was from Mary Hamer.

Mary Hamer
Mary Hamer

Mary shared her “My Gutsy Story®” of how she escaped her career and followed her passion.

Our second story this month is by Dixie Diamanti.

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Dixie Diamante

Dixie’s story is courageous in that she shares how she broke the “secret” of incest within her family.

Our third story is by Penelope James.

Penelope James
Penelope James

Pennie wrote such an inspiring “My Gutsy Story®” about how she overcame job loss, financial struggles, health problems and moved on.

Our last story of the month is by Jennifer Richardson.

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Jennifer Richardson

Jennifer shares her honest account of not giving into the pressures of becoming a mother.

Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

Would you like to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” and get  published in our 2nd anthology?

Please see guidelines below and contact Sonia Marsh at: sonia@soniamarsh.com for details.

You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

Visit us on Monday July 1st.  Liz Burgess will be sharing her “My Gutsy Story®.”

Gutsy Flip-Flops and Toenail Contests

June 20, 2013 by Sonia Marsh 2 Comments

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Sonia wearing her favorite flip-flops

Be Gutsy and join our summer flip-flops and painted toenail contest. Be different, daring and bold.

  • JOIN THE FLIP-FLOPS CONTEST and send your photos to: flipflopcontest@gmail.com
  • JOIN THE PAINTED TOE NAIL CONTEST and send your photos to: withoutaspare@gmail.com
  • You can double your chances to win and enter both

My blogger friend Bonnie Kassel suggested this great summer contest. You may remember reading her My Gutsy Story®, “Crossing the Sahara” in a VW Bug.

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Bonnie’s painted toe-nails
  • Sonia is judging photos sent to the “Bare Feet in Flip-Flops” contest. (Be different, daring and bold.)
  • Bonnie is judging photos sent to the “Bare Feet With Polished Toes” contest (Be different, daring and bold.)

Contest Dates:  June 20th-July3rd.
3 winners in each category:  Announced on my blog on Thursday, July 4th.
Send Flip-Flop photos to: flipflopcontest@gmail.com
Send Bare Feet with Polished Toes photos to: withoutaspare@gmail.com

PRIZES:

Top 3 winners in flip-flops category get a copy of  Sonia’s memoir: Freeways to Flip-Flops: A Family’s Year of Gutsy Living on a Tropical Island.

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Top 3 winners in painted-toe nail category get a copy of Bonnie Kassel’s memoir: Without a Spare.

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BONUS PRIZE:  A pair of flip-flops and nail polish to the winner in each of the two categories.

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MARK YOUR CALENDAR FOR THE SPECIAL EVENT TO LAUNCH OF OUR FIRST “My Gutsy Story®” ANTHOLOGY, ON SEPTEMBER 26TH, 2013, IN ORANGE COUNTY, CALIFORNIA. Click here for your invitation.

Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

NOW is the time to submit your “My Gutsy Story®,” to be considered for our 2nd Anthology.  Please see guidelines below and contact Sonia Marsh at: sonia@soniamarsh.com for details.

You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

June 2013 “My Gutsy Story®” stories

  1. Mary Hamer’s 
  2. Dixie Diamanti
  3. Pennie James

Monday, June 24th, Jennifer Richardson

Polls open to vote for your favorite June “My Gutsy Story®” starts on June 27th- July 10th. Winner announced on July 11th.

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