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Gutsy Google Hangout with Author Ian Mathie

February 6, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 1 Comment

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Gutsy Google Hangouts Program

I have started a new series called: Gutsy Google+ Hangouts where I interview interesting people from around the world.

I shall interview:

  • Authors
  • Film producers
  • Photographers
  • Gutsy People

Jerry Waxler, author of the Memoir Revolution said, during my recent interview with him, that people are connecting globally, thanks to technology and through sharing our stories.

The purpose of my Gutsy Google Hangouts, is to bring us closer together as a “global community.”

I want to thank my friend Jason Matthews, for sharing his expertise on Google+ Hangouts, with me. Please watch his program called Indie Authors on YouTube.

Ian Mathie interviewed on Gutsy Google Hangout
Ian Mathie interviewed on Gutsy Google Hangout

Author, Ian Mathie is my guest on today’s Gutsy Google Hangouts.

You can read Ian’s fascinating “My Gutsy Story” camel story at the Bilma Oasis in Niger, here.

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Ian’s latest memoir. Click on cover to go to Ian’s website.

Ian Mathie – Bio

Born in Scotland and taken to Africa aged three, Ian Mathie grew up in the bush. After short service as a pilot in the RAF, he returned to West Africa as a rural development officer. Well adapted to living in the bush, Ian worked with isolated societies, sharing their hardships and understanding cultures from the inside.

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REMEMBER TO VOTE for your favorite one of 4 “My Gutsy Story®” submissions, on the sidebar. You have from now until  February 12th to vote on the sidebar, (only one vote per person) and the winner will be announced on February 13th, and will select a prize from our generous sponsors.

 Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

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Would you like to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” and get published in our 2nd anthology?

Please see guidelines below and contact Sonia Marsh at: sonia@soniamarsh.com for details.

You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

 

Pregnant Mom Trains to Win Gold Medal

February 3, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 7 Comments

 Susie Mitchell

 Pregnancy to Podium 

“My Gutsy Story®” by Susie Mitchell

I am Susie, 37 year first time mom to a lovely vibrant baby girl Tori. I have always had an active lifestyle and loved sport from a young age. Yearning to be really good at something, in fact anything, I had tried everything from shot-putt to surfing, without much success. All that changed in the summer of 2011, when I tried track cycling for the first time. A type of cycling that is carried out at high speeds on an oval banked track using a fixed wheel bike with no brakes, it was exciting and I was hooked immediately. What’s more I was good at it. Racing on the track appealed to my competitive nature and I clearly had potential, winning races within a few weeks of getting up on the bike. When my coach suggested to me I would be good enough to compete in the World Masters Track Cycling Championships in Manchester the following October, a dream was ignited, and it became my focus. I had never competed internationally in any sport and was giddy at the thoughts of it. Then a massive curveball came my way – I became pregnant. I did not want to let go of my new found passion after waiting all these years to find it. I knew so many people who gave up their exercise and hobbies when they became pregnant and never went back. I wanted to hang onto my sport and my identity through pregnancy and becoming a mum for the first time.

Despite all the opinions to the contrary, I was determined to find a way to train safely and effectively through my pregnancy. I had always believed in the benefits of exercise during pregnancy and being a vet I had always marvelled how animals took all this in their stride. I searched the internet for all I could find on exercise and pregnancy and found only conservative advice. “Gentle jogging or easy swimming” didn’t appeal to me and wasn’t going to help me to the World Masters the following October. Turning my back on the internet and the colloquial advice that abounded, I focussed on what the science said to use as my guide. Surprisingly, after extensive reviewing of research and scientific papers, I discovered very little evidence to stop me doing pretty much anything while carrying a baby. Through this research and with the help of my coach, I found a way to maintain fitness and train through pregnancy safely.

The best advice I got was from one scientist and pretty simple – “listen to your body”. I used this as my mantra when working out. If it felt OK, I did it. I got some funny looks from people in the gym when I was lifting weights and doing core work. I got disapproving glances when I was in the park riding my bike. However, I forged ahead, as my coach and I had devised a set of guidelines for safe cycling which I trusted, giving me the confidence to go on. I worked on things like mental preparation and leg speed when I couldn’t do anything else. With some careful planning and research I found something suitable to do at every stage of the pregnancy. I trained right up until I was 10 days overdue and thought I had it all sorted.

A surprise was in store. You can prepare, but nothing prepares you for it. The impact of having a baby on your life is colossal.  My goal had been to arrive at the birth of my baby in peak physical condition. I had achieved this and in ways was probably fitter then I ever had been. I had trained with my bump in ways I never thought possible, and had enjoyed every minute of it.

Susie Mitchell Family
Susie Mitchell Family

However, when my beautiful healthy baby arrived into the world, everything went out the window. I had a dose of reality to deal with, grappling with the concept of being responsible for another human being for the rest of my life. I watched people through my window cycling past as I sat inside in my pyjamas trying to feed my baby and wondered would I ever get out and ride my bike again. I was physically exhausted from lack of sleep but more importantly I was mentally falling apart. I started to wonder if I was ever going to feel normal or be as happy and carefree as before. The whole experience, to my utter shock, had totally floored me.

Susie Mitchell Euro Bike
Susie Mitchell Euro Bike

Salvation came from the bike. Two weeks after the birth I tentatively got back in the saddle and started rolling around. Those first few laps pushing the pedals with the wind in my face felt like pure heaven. I was myself again, doing something for me, but with the bonus of a beautiful baby to go back to after a training session. The effects of sleep deprivation were nearly completely negated by exercise.  I hadn’t foreseen it, but my sport kept me mentally strong during those difficult first few weeks post-partum, helping me cope.

My return to form came so much quicker than I could have expected winning my first ever National medal just 6 weeks after the birth. I added others in the following months as I went from strength to strength culminating in my fulfilling my dream, travelling to compete in the World Masters in Manchester just 4 months after Tori arrived.

Susie Mitchell Podium-elation-Masters-2012

The event I was targeting was the individual pursuit. I was nervous with anticipation but when the starting gun went I knuckled down and rode my heart out, going faster than ever before, scooping the world title by just half a second. A lifelong dream had been fulfilled; I had excelled and was now a World Champion! Standing on the podium, wearing the rainbow jersey, the gold medal hanging around my neck and the Irish national anthem playing, tears streamed down my face. I knew that none of this would have been possible without having my baby, she trained with me, and she gave me energy, inspiration and focus, and made me strong. By being determined to maintain my identity, I ended up finding a new one, reinventing myself as a credible athlete, discovering it was possible to fuse motherhood and sport at a high level. Unless I had lived this story, I never would have thought it possible to have both in such perfect synergy.

SUSIE MITCHELL is a 37-year-old first time mom to a lovely baby girl, Tori. She currently lives in Dublin, Ireland with her supportive and long suffering husband Cormac. Working as a fish vet, she travels the length and breadth of the country visiting fish farms, jumping on and off trawlers in all kinds of weather.  Susie has always enjoyed sport coming from a background of surfing and adventure racing, and more recently track cycling. She tries to juggle being a mum, wife, training and working with reasonable success.

Please follow Susie Mitchell.

  • Susie’s website: www.pregnancytopodium.com
  • Susie on Twitter: @susie_mitchell
  • Susie’s Facebook.
Susie Mitchell book cover
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 SONIA MARSH SAYS: Susie, first of all Congratulations on your medal and your determination. As a woman who loves weight training, I can relate to the benefits of exercise during pregnancy. I shall never forget the look on people’s faces at the gym in Paris, when I benched and my bump was six-months out there. Keep training!

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PLEASE VOTE for your favorite one of 4 “My Gutsy Story®” submissions, on the sidebar. You have from now until  February 12th to vote on the sidebar, (only one vote per person) and the winner will be announced on February 13th, and will select a prize from our generous sponsors.

 Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

MGS FINAL COVER Small
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Would you like to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” and get published in our 2nd anthology?

Please see guidelines below and contact Sonia Marsh at: sonia@soniamarsh.com for details.

You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

 

Vote For Your Favorite January “My Gutsy Story®”

January 30, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 3 Comments

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Get ready to VOTE for your favorite one of 4 “My Gutsy Story®” submissions. You have from now until  February 12th to vote on the sidebar, (only one vote per person) and the winner will be announced on February 13th, and will select a prize from our generous sponsors.

Our 1st “My Gutsy Story®” is by Jon Magidsohn.

Jon Magidsohn
Jon Magidsohn

SONIA MARSH SAYS: Jon, your story and your words bring out so many emotions from love, to loss, to love. What a powerful and beautifully written “My Gutsy Story®.”

Our 2nd “My Gutsy Story®” is by Gillian Jackson

Gillian Jackson
Gillian Jackson

SONIA MARSH SAYS: It’s so nice to hear a positive ending, and that your husband was so supportive and helpful during this difficult time. I am also amazed at how your writing has blossomed and helped you through everything.

Our 3rd “My Gutsy Story®” is by Eleanor Vincent

Eleanor Vincent
Eleanor Vincent

SONIA MARSH SAYS: A story of love and courage during a time that mothers never want to face.

Our 4th “My Gutsy Story®” is by Shirley Showalter.

Shirley Showalter
Shirley Showalter

SONIA MARSH SAYS: Shirley, I had never thought about living for two until you described what you realized about facing death as part of life.

Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

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Would you like to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” and get published in our 2nd anthology?

Please see guidelines below and contact Sonia Marsh at: sonia@soniamarsh.com for details.

You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

VOTING for your favorite January 2014 “My Gutsy Story®” starts on January 30th and ends on February 12th. Winner will be announced on February 13th.

 

 

How I Became a “Gutsy” Mennonite

January 27, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 25 Comments

Shirley Showalter

The Fear of Death

  “My Gutsy Story®” Shirley Showalter

Behind all our fears, often hidden even to ourselves, lies one big fear.

Yes, you got it. The fear of death.

We can’t become truly gutsy, courageous, until we accept the reality of death and consciously seek to live deeply and fully in its presence.

I first stared death in the face at the age of six.

Shirley Showalter as a child and coffin

It happened this way:

On the evening of Dec. 20, 1954, my younger brother Henry and I were playing in a little stack of hay in our barn, making tunnels out of bales and talking about what we hoped for in our Christmas stockings. Cows chewed contentedly next to us. The DeLaval milkers sounded almost like heartbeats—lub-dub, lub-dub, lub-dub—as they extracted warm milk from each udder.

And then we heard it: a horrible, penetrating, animal-like scream, piercing that night and my life to this day. The terrible sound grew louder as Mother came toward the barn. She ran to Daddy and, still screaming, started pounding him on his chest.

“My baby is dead. Our baby is dead. My baby is dead.” That was all she could say, over and over again. Then she would throw back her head and wail.

I learned a lesson that night that I would have to learn again when my father died at age 55 and when several close friends died in sudden, untimely ways.

We all die.

From then on, life became even more precious. I decided to live twice, once for myself and once for the little sister who lived only 39 days.

When I played softball on the playground, I swung for the fences.

When I read books, like Little Women, I identified with the gutsiest character, Jo.

When I discovered you have to go to college in order to be a teacher I decided to go, even though my parents weren’t enthusiastic about the idea. Even though no one else in my family had ever gone.

When I stood up to the bishop in my Mennonite Church and told him that he wasn’t practicing what he preached.

What does it mean to live twice? How did it change my life?

In other words, my childhood and adolescence were never the same after I heard my mother scream and after I touched the cold, white skin of my baby sister inside that sad little casket in 1954.

Death made a searcher out of me. I sought out writers who understood urgency, such as Annie Dillard, who advised:

Write as if you were dying. At the same time, assume you write for an audience consisting solely of terminal patients. That is, after all, the case. What would you begin writing if you knew you would die soon? What could you say to a dying person that would not enrage by its triviality?

I love these words. I try to keep them in mind as I write my stories.

But I have to keep something else in mind also.

I believe that death is not the end of life. The writers I love best don’t dwell on morbidity, they face death and fear, and while doing so, come home to themselves by coming home to love. Engraved inside their hearts is the reminder that love is eternal.

But it wasn’t a writer that taught me that lesson first; it was my mother. After she shook my six-year-old world with her screams and tears, she took solace in her faith and accepted the comfort of friends and family. Depression tempted her. She could have withdrawn from life and hence from her living children. Had that happened, you would not be reading these words.

Sometimes the gutsiest things we do are to keep on putting one foot in front of another and continuing to live, determined to turn darkness into light.

Next month my mother turns eighty-seven. I no longer fear death because love has triumphed. Whatever is gutsy in me goes all the way back to 1954 and to the woman who never gave up on life, my mother.

Shirley Showalter and her mom

SHIRLEY HERSHEY SHOWALTER, author of Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World, grew up on a Lancaster County, Pennsylvania, dairy farm and went on to become a professor and then college president and foundation executive. Find her at her website: www.shirleyshowalter.com

Please watch my interview with Shirley Showalter about her memoir: Blush: A Mennonite Girl Meets a Glittering World

Click on cover to go to Amazon
Click on cover to go to Amazon

Please join Shirley on her Facebook page, and on Twitter @Shirleyhs

Here is my 5-star review of Shirley’s excellent memoir, Blush.

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Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

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Would you like to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” and get published in our 2nd anthology?

Please see guidelines below and contact Sonia Marsh at: sonia@soniamarsh.com for details.

You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

Our January 2014 “My Gutsy Story®” series started with:

  1. Jon Magidsohn
  2. Gillian Jackson
  3. Eleanor Vincent

VOTING for your favorite January 2014 “My Gutsy Story®” starts on January 30th and ends on February 12th. Winner will be announced on February 13th.

Get Paid as a Travel Blogger -LA Times Travel Show

January 26, 2014 by Sonia Marsh Leave a Comment

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Sonia Marsh and travel blogger Elaine Masters at LA Times Travel Show

Do you love to travel? What about travel writing?

As a travel fan, author and blogger, I find that Trade Day at the LA Times Travel Show is the place to learn what’s new and hot in the travel business.

I follow several travel bloggers, but did not know about professional organizations that link travel bloggers with the travel industry. The Professional Travel Bloggers Association (PTBA) is an organization created by the efforts of almost fifty travel bloggers over the past year or so. They have specific requirements to join:

  • For travel bloggers: a minimum of nine months blogging and more than 3,000 page views in the last thirty days on your website. The annual fee is $75.
  • For travel industry and PR members: there is no minimum statistical requirement. The fee for a group/company/DMO/organization that wants to join is $300 per year.

There are several lists of professional travel bloggers specializing in family travel, eco-travel, luxury travel, and many other categories, you can join.

  •  Navigatemediagroup.com
  • iAmbassador.com
  • Ecoadventuremedia.com
  •  Bestfamilytravelexperts.com

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Rob Holmes-Founder-Chief Storyteller GLP Films
Rob Holmes-Founder-Chief Storyteller GLP Films

Rob Holmes, founder and chief storyteller of GLP Films, spoke about “The Power of Storytelling–in Travel.”

Yes, even travel films and videos need authentic storytelling in order to engage their audiences.

Introducing GLP Films in a short video.


Holmes breaks down storytelling for film in a way that can help writers.

The Key Elements to storytelling:

  • Purpose
  • Journey
  • Location
  • Characters
  • Keywords (yes, that surprised me too!)

1). Purpose:

  • Ask yourself why am I telling this story?
  • Who am I going to target? (my audience)
  • What is the potential impact? (sales)

2). Journey:

  • What is the journey? (for example a great rafting trip)
  • What is the conflict? (to make it engaging)
  • What are the key themes in this journey or film?

3). Location:

  • You want diversity. What are the key locations?
  • How are the locations relevant to the characters?
  • Observe and obtain a diverse mix of shots.

4). Character:

  • Who are your characters?
  • What are their stories?
  • How can your audience connect?
  • In film-making, sometimes your best characters are not the CEO or employees, but some local character you didn’t expect.

5). Keywords:

  • Identify 10+ keywords or phrases to describe your story.
  • Research what your film partners, (or similar writers) are using as keywords.

What do you mean by keywords?

I asked Rob Holmes what he meant by keywords, and how to find new keywords for your content.

Rob suggested inviting 5-6 friends who know you well, and brainstorm. Ask them to come up with keywords that fit your theme. A glass of wine may help the process.

What is a great story-page-0

A great story just like a great film, needs to be:

  • Powerful
  • Engage the audience
  • Educate (or entertain)
  • You need to take risks to make it unique
  • It needs to be perpetual (do not date it)

I was impressed with the quality of GLP films, and also the power of storytelling in film.

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Do you have a “My Gutsy Story®” you’d like to share?

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Would you like to submit your “My Gutsy Story®” and get published in our 2nd anthology?

Please see guidelines below and contact Sonia Marsh at: sonia@soniamarsh.com for details.

You can find all the information, and our new sponsors on the “My Gutsy Story®” contest page. (VIDEO) Submission guidelines here

Our January 2014 “My Gutsy Story®” series started with:

  1. Jon Magidsohn
  2. Gillian Jackson
  3. Eleanor Vincent

Monday, January 27th, Shirley Showalter will share his “My Gutsy Story®.”

VOTING for your favorite January 2014 “My Gutsy Story®” starts on January 30th and ends on February 12th. Winner will be announced on February 13th.

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