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Single Woman Cruising Solo

March 21, 2025 by Sonia Marsh 2 Comments

Single Woman Solo Cruising:

Sonia enjoying the Paul Gauguin cruise in Bora Bora

I’m a single woman cruising solo and enjoying life at 67. I feel young, vibrant, and excited about life.

With all the turmoil and uncertainty in our world today, I’ve decided to cruise solo as much as my budget will allow. I’m in good health and want to enjoy the positives, meeting people from other countries and seeing new places on our beautiful planet.

Focusing on small ships catering to singles:

This year, I’ve booked three different cruise lines to compare: PONANT (French), CRYSTAL (owned by Abercrombie and Kent), and SEABOURN (Carnival Corporation & plc.) After trying all three cruises, I’ll be able to discuss the pros and cons of each, and decide which cruise line I prefer.

Solo traveling is growing, especially among women, so I have researched the smaller ships that offer discounts for solo travelers, and cannot wait to compare all three.

My first cruise is on The Paul Gauguin Cruise Ship (PONANT)

I plan to spend a week in Bath, U.K., before heading to Singapore, where the first leg of my cruise starts.

This will be my third cruise on the Paul Gauguin twice to French Polynesia, which I highly recommend.

The ship is small, with 330 passengers, and the crew is always upbeat and friendly. They remember my first name and the extra-strong Americano is ready every morning when I arrive at the early risers continental breakfast bar.

On my Christmas cruise in French Polynesia, I met a nice Romanian woman who loves to swim as much as I do. We would meet at the coffee bar at 6:00 a.m. and wait for the swimming pool to be refilled with warm seawater. I love that there is no chlorine in the pool and that they replace it with seawater daily. Here’s a video on how they do it.

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I’ve never been to Singapore, so I decided to hire a guide (tours by locals). I arrive in the evening at Changi Airport, and a Paul Gauguin representative will drive me to my hotel. (That’s the plan!) The following day, I’ll have 3 hours to tour Singapore’s highlights with my guide before embarkation.

Another bonus are the lectures on board the Paul Gauguin by various experts. So I look forward to learning about different cultures and other interesting facts on my two-week journey to Darwin (see map above). I’ve pre-booked my excursions to stunning islands and beaches such as Parai Beach, Indonesia, Java, Bali,

Nusa-Penida Bali

Komodo Island (and the famous Komodo dragons, the largest species of dragons up to 330 lbs).

Komodo dragon

My last excursion before Darwin, is in Dili (the capital of East Timor), an island that I was hoping the Peace Corps would send me to volunteer when I applied.

Please follow me as I cruise along for another two weeks to Fiji.

Let me know if you’ve experienced a wonderful cruise and which cruise lines you would suggest I try.

More to come!!!

Sonia

 

2nd part of the cruise from Darwin to Fiji

Airbnb Experiences, How I book my Airbnb

September 4, 2023 by Sonia Marsh 6 Comments

Airbnb Experiences, how I book my Airbnb

My Airbnb in Santa Barbara, California

My first Airbnb experience was eight years ago in April 2015 in Athens, Greece. Since then I’ve stayed in 32 Airbnb’s in six countries, so I think I can say that I’ve become an expert at selecting an Airbnb that fits my needs. Airbnb experiences vary from private rooms in someone’s home to entire apartments or houses. Here are my tips on how I go about the whole process.

Tips on how to book your Airbnb: Location and dates

First of all, I decide on the location and dates. Just like flights, the sooner you book, the more options you have as only those available on the dates you’ve selected, show up on the Airbnb site.

Location is crucial when staying in a city you’re unfamiliar with or when you are visiting family and friends. Although you won’t be given the exact address until you confirm your booking with a credit card, you can still see the approximate location and surrounding street names on the map provided. I sometimes Google Map the cross streets and check the distance between the location and whatever I want to be close to.

Example of Airbnb search in Nice, France using filters on site

Airbnb Filters

Next, I check a few items on the filters, for example, I no longer want to book a private room in a house with a shared bathroom. I click on the filter that says “entire home” followed by the number of beds and baths, and since I’m alone, I just need one of each. The next filter I click on is house or apartment, and finally amenities. If you’re looking for a beach location, you can click on beachfront, and other amenities such as “free cancelation” or “allows pets,” and on the bottom right corner, it will show how many listings are available.

Airbnb Cost and Rating based on Reviews

As you can see on the Airbnb screenshot above, there are 3 photos with cost/night and ratings which vary from 4.79 with (19) reviews, 4.9 with (70) reviews and 5.0 with (5) reviews. I generally pick the 4.9 and 5.0 ratings and read 5-10 reviews to see if they talk about comfort, cleanliness, proximity to shops and grocery stores, as I normally walk everywhere or take public transport. I also look at all the photos to make sure there’s a fridge, cooking range, nice, clean bathroom, etc.

You generally get a discount if you stay for 7 nights, and when you click on the Airbnb you want to book, there is breakdown of cost, with cleaning fee added, and Airbnb service fee. You can check the terms of cancellation.

 

Airbnb Photos are important to get a feel of the place
Beautiful Airbnb cottage in Dorset, UK.

I love to look at all the photos and see if the place looks cozy and if I can see myself enjoying the interior or the view, or garden. Who wouldn’t want to stay in a nice cottage with a thatched roof. This was in the UK, during one of my trips, and although cute, I had to bend over upstairs as the ceilings were so low. Still charming though.

Me enjoying the garden in Santa Barbara Airbnb last week.

So the real reason I love staying in an Airbnb, is the flexibility of being able to make my own coffee, having a fridge and buying local produce at the market, the cost savings compared to a hotel especially for longer stays, and the feeling that I’m in my second home. When I select 4.8 to 5.0 star reviews, I’ve had good luck with the hosts, location and cleanliness of the Airbnb. Maybe I’ll reach 100 Airbnb stays one day as I travel around the world!

Have you stayed in an Airbnb? If so what was your experience? Please share so we can read your opinion.

Solo Travel with Sonia

July 13, 2023 by Sonia Marsh 12 Comments

May 2023 on a game drive in Etosha, Namibia

Welcome back to my updated blog focusing on my personal adventures in solo travel for women. My topics will dive into my innermost thoughts on issues that many women face when we travel solo.

Unlike other travel blogs offering tips on places to visit and foods to try, mine is about my life at 65 as I navigate through different countries and face new situations.

Since 2017, I’ve explored South Africa, Namibia, Kenya, Tanzania, Botswana, Zimbabwe, Zambia, Rwanda, Maldives, Seychelles, Madagascar, and Dubai. These trips were business related and not solo travel. Grenada, the UK and France were part of my solo travel experiences and Covid did not prevent me from traveling solo. In fact, flights were empty and I quite enjoyed being the only passenger on an Air France flight in Premium Economy.

During our game drive we saw a lion stuffed after devouring a zebra kill.

I travel purely for pleasure and not to make a living like many bloggers and influencers who have sponsors. Since I don’t travel year round, I plan to write about other topics that interest me and hopefully you as well. For example, my fears of being alone and the anticipation of meeting other like-minded travelers, setting boundaries after a life of people-pleasing, learning to keep my mind positive, staying active, eating healthy, and continuing to meditate and learn. A little side-note, I discovered an app offering courses on creativity, finding peace and joy, and mindfulness. I find it so helpful on a daily basis: “Insight Timer.” 

Finally, I’m working with a coach to motivate me to start writing another memoir about my life after divorce. I must stop procrastinating and making excuses. Last year I booked an Airbnb in Grenada with the intention of starting my second memoir. Instead, I ended up listening to umpteen podcasts and videos on writing, just to get motivated. Did I write? NO! I spent the entire seven weeks researching all I could find on memoir writing.

My small studio in Grenada
Morning meditation to get my creativity started
Why write when you can enjoy the outdoors!
A spa to relax before writing
An evening rum punch to relax after a day of thinking about writing

So now, in 2023, I’m in the mood to start solo-travel to places I haven’t yet explored. My first solo travel trip is to Croatia in September. I’ll share the process I went through in selecting a solo travel company that fits what I’m looking for in my next post.

Have you traveled solo? If so, please share and let me know which topics interest you in the comments section.

 

 

 

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