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Take the Risk Contest

November 17, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 4 Comments

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Take The Risk Contest.
I started the My Gutsy Story® Anthology series in order to inspire people to help one another take risks in life.
I’m a firm believer in going for your dreams and passions in life. Whether those are “baby steps” or huge changes in your life, I’m all for it. As you know this site is called:

“Gutsy Living: Life’s Too Short to Play it Safe.”

I also believe in being proactive and making things happen. Things don’t just happen, you have to make them happen.

Everyone goes through different stages in life, and I myself am going through a major change in the last 4 months, including my divorce.

My goal is to inspire people to take their so-called “problems” and turn them into opportunities.

WIN 10 FREE COPIES 

TO GIVE AWAY AS HOLIDAY GIFTS

CONTEST RULES

Send us a 500 word max. story by December 13th (e-mail: Sonia@soniaMarsh.com)

1). Have You Inspired Someone to Take a Risk and be Gutsy?

2). Has Someone Inspired You to Take a Risk and be Gutsy?

 Win 10 FREE copies of the My Gutsy Story® 

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 Anthology to give as Christmas Gifts and motivate others to Become Gutsy in 2015

I receive wonderful testimonials from people who are inspired by these stories, and here is one example.

“Just wanted you to know that you have been such an encouragement for me, and I appreciate you!  I didn’t want to start my own imprint, but now I see how important it is and will do so after the first of the year. You have already encouraged so many women to get out there and get it done!  a true inspiration. And if the Peace Corps doesn’t work out, then there are plenty of women right here in OC who need your help in starting a business.” Janet Simcic.

My author friend, Shirley Showalter, planted the seed of a contest on how you have, or can help  SOMEONE become more “GUTSY” in their life.
Do you have a story to share about changing one person? Making them go for their dreams, encouraging them?
Take the risk contest today.
 

Portraying Pain and Survival in Memoir by Amy Friedman

November 10, 2014 by Sonia Marsh Leave a Comment

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Amy Friedman photo credit: http://www.amyfriedman.net/

 

As someone who loves to read and write memoirs, I was inspired by Amy Friedman’s life story, and the lessons she offered memoir writers at the California Writers Club-Orange, on Saturday, November 8th, 2014.

Her presentation topic, “Portraying Pain and Survival in Memoir,” is one that she is intimately connected to herself, with her own memoir: Desperado’s Wife, a memoir about falling in love with a prisoner.

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Amy teaches creative writing and offered some helpful tools for us to consider when writing our memoirs.

“When you can write down something that troubles you, it can change you. Something changes in the brain.”

Amy made a comment that applies to memoir writers:

  • You have to let go of your agendas

What does this mean?

Well if you’re trying to prove something like, “I’m not crazy to have married a prisoner, ” Amy says, or

perhaps trying to prove that, “People in prison are people too.”

In other words, if your agenda is, I’m going to:

  • Show you
  • Prove to you
  • Teach you

Then you are probably going to lie on the page to prove your point.

This is a great point that I had not thought of, and it makes complete sense.

  • Don’t waste your time talking about your story; write about it instead.

Amy says that we waste energy when we talk about our story. Just write about it instead.

  • Write to discover what you don’t know about your story.
  • If you cannot remember stuff, start writing. Talking and thinking about it doesn’t make you remember it, but writing does.
  • Sometimes what you don’t remember is more interesting. Write about it.

Most memoir writers worry about what other family members might think, feel or fear.

  • You can’t worry about what others might think, feel or fear.

Amy reminded us that it’s important to write about what is gnawing at us.

Worry about it later when you think about publishing your story.

  • The more intimate and personal your writing, the more it’s about your truth, the more your story is relatable.
  • When you write and think that something is not important, pat attention to it, especially if you keep coming back to it.
  • When you write your memoir, tell your story first.
  • The reflection aspect of memoir, the “I think, I feel, I understand,” should come last.

MY QUESTION TO AMY FRIEDMAN: 

When I wrote my memoir, Freeways to Flip-Flops: A Family’s Year of gutsy Living on a Tropical Island, it wasn’t until the very end that I figured out the message I wanted to convey to my readers.

When I write my next memoir, hopefully about my 27-months in the Peace Corps and the next “Gutsy” adventure in my life, I want to start with the message first as a way to outline my memoir. What do you think?

Amy stated that this is not a good idea. It’s like starting with an agenda. (See above.) Then you start your memoir and lie, in order to make everything fit the message. Amy confirmed that it’s normal to wait until the end to discover the message you want to convey to your audience.

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Amy Friedman and me
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Amy Friedman and Sonia Marsh at CWC-OC Orange, CA.

 Amy Friedman: is an author and creative writing teacher whose books include Desperado’s Wife: A Memoir, Kick the Dog and Shoot the Cat, and Nothing Sacred: A Conversation with Feminism. She also works as a ghostwriter and editor, and her articles, essays and stories have appeared in magazines, newspapers and numerous anthologies. Since 1992 Amy has written the internationally syndicated newspaper featureTell Me A Story for Universal UClick, a column that has spawned two book collections and three audiobooks.

Amy lives in Los Angeles with her husband, the teacher and writer Dennis Danziger with whom she recently created POPS the club. Please visit POPS, Pain of the Prison System.

Her website: http://www.amyfriedman.net/

AMY FRIEDMAN will be on the NAMW “Breaking the Silence Teleconference ” on Friday, November 14th. Click here to find out more.

 

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 We just won our 4th Award for the Anthology. 

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Finding Your Book Customers

November 6, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 1 Comment

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Dan Poynter: photo credit www.tailwindsbook.com

Dan Poynter is the guru of self-publishing; we all know that, but what you might not know is that Dan is a pilot, skydiver, Master Parachute Rigger, and an aviation historian. He is a world traveler—53 countries and the North Pole.

The reason we need to know this is that Dan emphasizes how passion for a specific topic makes it  easier to build your brand, and market and sell your books. Dan stated his passion is skydiving and aviation, and  he is the author of 132 books, many of them on aviation. He likes to entertain his audience and tell jokes, and claims that at age 76, he’s had many years to write over 130 books.

At the PWSD (Publishers and Writers of San Deigo) meeting on October 25th, 2014, Dan Poynter starts with a quote by John Rakestraw, Book Designer:

“Marketing is hard.

Selling is scary.

But ….talking to people about what we love to do, is something we do every chance we get.”

I enjoy Dan’s honest and straightforward approach to giving indie authors advice on how to find their customers and sell books.

According to Dan here are his 3 dont’s:

  • Don’t “Spray and Pray.” This is when you promote to everyone and hope for some sales.
  • Don’t “Batch and Blast.” This is when you send the same message to everyone.
  • Don’t Hunt with a Shotgun as Opposed to a Rifle.” This applies to those who send their book announcement to more than their target audience.

Dan believes that the Internet, is the modern “campfire,”  and as authors know:

  • Book promotion is up to us, whether we are traditionally or indie published. 

Dan candidly explains that the BIG 5 traditional publishers treat books like products and they don’t care about your topic- like skydiving and where you could promote it. All they care about is the paycheck they are receiving from bookstores, and,

  • Bookstores are a lousy place to sell your books.
  • Only send information out to those who are interested in your book.

That’s when Dan reminds us that the “Spray and Pray” system where we send our book out to everyone with the hope that someone will buy it doesn’t work.

Dan says we need to:

  • Fish where the fish are. (Most of the time that’s not in the bookstores.
  • Get the word out to only those who care since this costs less and you only want to find those readers who are interested in your books subject.

 

How do you find readers who are interested in your book topic?

 

That’s easy when you have a specific topic like Persian cats, parachuting, mountain biking. You only look for those who are fascinated by those specific topics. For example with cats, only search for those interested in Persian cats, not all cat lovers.

Here are some tips from Dan Poynter that I found very helpful:

  • Promote with (other people’s blogs) “Get someone else to blow your horn and the sound will carry twice as far.” –Will Rogers
  • Google Alerts (Sign up for alerts on your own favorite topics to get information on your book right away.)
  • Join Groups/Forums and get known. LinkedIn, Yahoo Groups, Facebook, Twitter. (Use 5 different photos of yourself and in 24 hours, all those photos will pop up on Google Images.) I found this very interesting and shall test this out. Let me know if you try it as well.
  • Leave Reviews, and always add your name, your book and your URL at the end of the review. Dan mentioned leaving your URL on Amazon reviews, however, I do not believe this is allowed on Amazon.
  • Spend your time online (in your field,)
  • Locate reporters who write about your subject. HARO (Help a reporter out) is one way. www.helpareporter.com
  • Book Covers Dan suggested having your name on the top of the book cover, like  they do for famous authors, such as Dan Brown. “That way you will appear to be more important in the in the industry. People will ask, “Did we miss this person?” I loved this idea.
  • Each book should have it’s own URL, and dedicated website. for me that would be: http://MyGutsyStoryAnthology, or http://FreewaystoFlipFlops.com

Bottom line is we all want to be “DISCOVERABLE.” 

Another tip, which I have also said in my previous blog posts, is

  • “Do what you’re good at, and hire out the rest.” 

Dan Poynter also said,

  • “Do not start a blog” if you haven’t got one. Instead, “Contribute to other people’s blogs on your subject.”

You can find Dan Poynter’s books and articles on his website. 

 

 We Need More Submissions For Our 2015 Anthology ASAP

 

 

NOW ACCEPTING SUBMISSIONS

Get Published in our 3rd

“My Gutsy Story®”Anthology in 2015

 

SUBMISSION GUIDELINES HERE

 

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 2013 Benjamin Franklin Honoree Winner

International Book Awards Finalist 2014

2014 International Book Awards FINALIST

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2014 WINNER of the PARIS BOOK FESTIVAL

 We just won our 4th Award for the Anthology. 

CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT ABOUT OUR AWARDS.

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How to Create A Super Successful Book Launch

November 3, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 3 Comments

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Zov Karamardian, owner of Zov’s Bistro, Tustin, Sonia Marsh, and Ann Pulice moderator.

 

A successful book launch is  about creating a friendly ambiance at a fantastic location like Zov’s Bistro.

Everyone loves to feel welcomed, and part of a  “like-minded” group.

An event based on a theme, great food, delicious wine and  a warm atmosphere, is critical in creating that special “atmosphere.”

I try to offer the same when I invite people to my book launches.

As I wrote in How to Create a Successful Book Launch à la “Academy Awards”, it takes planning and inviting people who are interested in the theme of your book, as well as entertaining everyone.

This year, for the launch of our 2nd My Gutsy Story® Anthology: Taking Chances and Changing Your Life,  I invited a panel of  4 speakers and merged the Peace Corps as a way to show where I hope to start the new chapter of my next “gutsy” adventure in my life.

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I invited  Ann Pulice Owens to moderate our event. Ann is an Emmy/Golden Mic award-winning journalist serving as co-anchor of PBS SoCal’s (KOCE-TV) “Real Orange,” did a fantastic job of introducing the panelists and keeping us on track.

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Ann Pulice, moderator

 

Our wonderful audience signed up and entered the raffle with my volunteer friend, Sylvia McDonald, the amazing organizer.

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Sylvia McDonald my fantastic friend/organizer/volunteer

Our enthusiastic audience:

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Our panel of “Gutsy” authors.

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Panelists

Our panel consisted of :

Sonia Marsh (ME):

  • Sonia Marsh: Award-winning author of Freeways to Flip-flops and founder of the My Gutsy Story®

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  • Julia Capizzi: This dynamic bilingual Peace Corps volunteer turned professional Peace Corps recruiter has lived abroad in El Salvador and Bolivia.
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Julia Capizzi on left and Terri Elders (Returning Peace Corps Volunteer) right.

 

  • Colleen Hannegan: Author and professional speaker, certified business advisor and personal life coach for women in transition.
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Colleen Hannegan and her now book, “Girl on a Bike.”

 

  • Mariana Williams: Author and founder of the “Long Beach Searches for Greatest Storyteller,” married to Oscar-winning singer/songwriter Paul Williams.
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Mariana Williams

 

  • Jonathan Yanez: Went from renting cars, to following his dream of becoming an author. His three-book series publishing contract has now been optioned for film.
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Jonathan Yanez

 

My wonderful editor Eve Gumpel, if you are a writer and need a fabulous editor.

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Eve Gumpel, my fantastic editor

 

Barbara Kimler, my wonderful publicist.

 

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Sonia Marsh and her great publicist, Barbara Kimler

 

Suzanne Chun from “The Examiner” took notes and many photos here are from her, as well as Barbara Kimler.

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3 media musketeers: Jennifer Heinly, Barbara Kimler, Suzanne Chun (right)

 

Tips to a Successful book launch

  • Start 3-4 months before
  • Offer a panel of speakers to entertain your audience based on your book’s theme
  • Have a moderator (locally famous if you can)
  • Hire a local publicist to help you get local media attention
  • Think outside the box of what organization might be relevant to your book’s topic and invite them to join
  • Pick a nice venue
  • Offer food and wine
  • Charge people for the food and wine, and offer a “free” book to everyone
  • Sign up with Eventbrite on FB
  • Use the Eventbrite countdown widget on your blog (Contact me if you need help with this or any marketing suggestions)
  • Offer great door prizes
  • Make each person on your panel speak for 5 minutes or so
  • Engage the audience and get the moderator to have Q & A
  • Invite everyone to review your book on Amazon 
  • Be kind, helpful and chat with everyone

 


 

 

NOW ACCEPTING SUBMISSIONS

Get Published in our 3rd

“My Gutsy Story®”Anthology in 2015

 

SUBMISSION GUIDELINES HERE

 

MGS FINAL COVER Small
Click on cover to go to Amazon

Benjamin Franklin Digital Awards Solver

 2013 Benjamin Franklin Honoree Winner

International Book Awards Finalist 2014

2014 International Book Awards FINALIST

Paris bookfestival

2014 WINNER of the PARIS BOOK FESTIVAL

 We just won our 4th Award for the Anthology. 

CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT ABOUT OUR AWARDS.

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Vote for Your Favorite October “My Gutsy Story®”

October 30, 2014 by Sonia Marsh Leave a Comment

VOTE BE GUTSY BADGE

 

You have from now until November 12th to vote on the sidebar, (only one vote per person) and the winner will be announced on November 13th, and will select a prize from our generous sponsors.

Our 1st “My Gutsy Story®” is by  Don Darkes, “Wait. Don’t shoot!” How My Family Came Close to Extinction.

SONIA MARSH SAYS: What an amazing story of courage. Unexpected ending.

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Our 2nd “My Gutsy Story®” is by Sherri Martin-Hutchins, “My Journey From Suburbanite to Farm Girl”

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 SONIA MARSH SAYS: Reading your story reminded me of when my husband and I moved to Belize, our dream location. I think people thought we were crazy, but I know it was the best decision we ever made for our family. I now you will succeed, as both of you are passionate about your next phase in life.

Our 3rd “My Gutsy Story®” is by:Lee Lomas, “Having the Courage to Be Myself.”

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Our 4th “My Gutsy Story®” is by Jane Franklin, “Proud to Serve, But the War Wasn’t Over For Him.”

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All four stories were very different and I urge you to read them and vote for your favorite one on the sidebar. THANK YOU.


ONLY 2 DAYS LEFT.

Sign up NOW on Eventbrite to reserve your seat for a FUN and ENTERTAINING EVENT

to launch our 2nd “My Gutsy Story®” Anthology.

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My Gutsy Story® Anthology: Taking Chances and Changing Your Life

 

What:  Author Sonia Marsh launches the second publication in her My Gutsy Story® Anthology book series by hosting an evening of inspirational stories moderated by former PBS SoCal anchor Ann Pulice.  Marsh, the award winning author and founder of My Gutsy Story®  series, will also announce her next gutsy adventure, signing up for the Peace Corps. The event is open to the public and all attendees will receive a copy of the newest My Gutsy Story® Anthology.

 

When:  Saturday, November 1

4:00 to 6:30 p.m.

 

Where:  Zovs Restaurant in Tustin

17440 E. 17th St., Tustin, CA 92780, (MAP)

ph (714) 838.8855

 

Who:  Moderator Ann Pulice is an award-winning journalists and was co-host on PBS SoCal’s Real Orange for 17 years.

Ann Pulice Emcee for the Book Launch Event
Ann Pulice Emcee for the Book Launch Event

 

Panelists include:

  • Sonia Marsh: Award-winning author of Freeways to Flip-flops and founder of the My Gutsy Story®
  • Julia Capizzi: Orange County Peace Corps representative and Bilingual Returned Peace Corps Volunteer who has lived abroad in El Salvador & Bolivia.
  • Colleen Hannegan: Author and professional speaker, certified business advisor, personal life coach for women in transition.
  • Mariana Williams: Author and founder of the “Long Beach Searches for Greatest Storyteller,” married to Oscar-winning singer/songwriter Paul Williams.
  • Jonathan Yanez: Went from renting cars, to following his dream of becoming an author. His three-book series publishing contract has now been optioned for film.

 

Cost:   $40 (includes book, wine and appetizers) before October 20th and $45 after that date.

More: Marsh hopes the My Gutsy Story® Anthology series and events will create a global community to help one another take risks in life. Her first publication, Freeways to Flip Flops, a chronology of her family’s one-year adventure in Belize, recently won the Reader’s Favorite, 2014 Gold Medal book award.

 

RSVP: For more information call (949) 309-0030 or e-mail: Sonia@soniamarsh.com

EventBrite: To sign up for the event

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