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Reinventing Myself in Mid-Life

April 23, 2015 by Sonia Marsh 9 Comments

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My student bedroom

 

I’ve become a student again at age 57, and quite frankly, it feels a little weird. I eat, sleep, and hang my wet laundry in one 8×12 room, but I accept this as a new challenge; part of reinventing myself in mid-life.

After a thirty-six year–student to career woman to wife to mom and back to student gap–I discovered that unlike social media, student-life is not about connecting and sharing; it’s about becoming territorial. You see my brand new toilet paper roll shrank to half its original size after my three male roommates discovered it on the bathroom shelf. They obviously must keep theirs in the bedroom or else they don’t spend money on toilet paper.

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My clothes dryer

So why would a woman my age, share a bathroom and a kitchen with three young men? Is that part of reinventing myself?

It’s not because I miss being a mom, nor because I envy Madonna who loves dating men in their twenties, and I certainly don’t enjoy the smell of curry and garlic at 11 p.m. when I’m trying to fall asleep. The truth is, I had no idea that my Airbnb in Greenwich, London, had a shared bathroom and kitchen. Now I know why I got such a good deal on this London rental.

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Bedroom/dining room/storage of food and bathroom items

In all fairness, the roommates have been quiet as they have exams coming up, and since I need to crack the whip and work hard myself in order to pass the Trinity College TESOL (Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages) exam, I am not too worried about my living situation. I shall get used to bringing all my stuff to the kitchen when I want to cook. At least we each have our own small fridge in our bedroom, so food will not “accidentally” disappear.

Since I found a gym close by, with nice showers and clean towels, I decided to get ready for school, at the gym. A short walk to Costa Coffee, and then I shall be alert for classes starting at 9:30 a.m, until 5:30 p.m. daily.

Reinventing myself in mid-life, requires being flexible, adaptable and “gutsy.” I hope you keep following me as I follow this journey and explore life-changing options.

Have you reinvented yourself in mid-life? If so was it a challenge?

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  1. Carol says

    April 23, 2015 at 1:25 pm

    When I met you several years ago I saw one person. Stunning and brilliant as she was, I had no idea she would soon astound me with her bravery!

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  2. Shirley Hershey Showalter says

    April 23, 2015 at 3:14 pm

    Cheering for you all the way, Sonia. I enjoy following your adventures.
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  3. maria says

    April 23, 2015 at 5:50 pm

    Yay Sonia! Its,always,great to learn at,any age. Kudos!

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    • Sonia Marsh says

      April 23, 2015 at 9:34 pm

      Thank you Shirley. It’s exciting to have so many options to choose from in life.
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    • Sonia Marsh says

      April 23, 2015 at 9:36 pm

      Maria. I think you’ll love living in Spain as well. The TESOL is the ideal certificate for teaching all over the world, as well as the CELTA; that’s the Cambridge equivalent.
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  4. ladyfi says

    April 23, 2015 at 8:44 pm

    You’re amazing Sonia! And as a certified TEFL teacher (even went on to get my Diploma in TEFL), I know just how tiring yet fun the course is!
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    • Sonia Marsh says

      April 23, 2015 at 9:38 pm

      LadyFi,

      Do you have a desire to one day teach again in a faraway country when your children are out of the house?
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  5. Penelope James says

    April 24, 2015 at 8:19 pm

    Sonia, it’s such fun following you around and especially now in your student quarters. It’s certainly a big change from what you’re used to, but anyone who can go off and live on the beach in Belize knows how to rough it. As for reinventing oneself in middle-age, I also went through the reinvention process at the same age as you. Moved countries and lowered my standard of living, and then started a new career that last a dozen years. One of the best experiences in my life as I am sure, this will prove to be for you. Look forward to your next post and photos.
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  6. maria says

    April 24, 2015 at 8:33 pm

    I actually wouldn’t mind getting a master’s degree from King’s College!

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