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Differences Between a French, a British and an American Gym

May 26, 2015 by Sonia Marsh 3 Comments

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Greenwich Gym

 

It’s been 6 weeks since I left the U.S., and I’ve worked out at a British gym in Greenwich, London, and a French gym, in the suburbs of Paris. I’m going to share my personal observations regarding the differences between a French, a British, and an American gym.

You can tell a lot about cultural habits, from the way people act in a gym. My observations are generalizations, but since I’ve lived in all three countries, I think they are fairly accurate.

French gyms, unlike U.S. gyms are not planned with safety, and ease of use in mind. Since France is not a country where people are likely to sue the gym for accidents, you will find the cleaning crew mopping slippery floors while people are exercising, and electrical cords being pulled while you’re stepping over them. If you fall, “tempis,” (oh, well) that’s your fault, and you’re expected to get up and limp to the next machine.

Don’t be surprised if you hear ‘primal’ screams while working out. This could either be from a man trying to get everyone to stop, stare, and check him out, or from a woman who is being whipped into shape by her personal trainer. Believe me, I heard these screams each time I worked out.

I think men designed the layout of French gyms so they can gawk at women doing pilates, aerobics, or dancing salsa. I’m not kidding! They stand around the edge of the room, like junior high kids at a dance, watching the women.

I don’t think French women lift weights; at least not when I was there. I was the only female in the tiny weight room, and the equipment was so close together that I had to step over weights and trip over men’s feet, to reach the disorganized dumbbell rack. I sensed the chauvinistic attitude of the men, refusing to move, even one inch, to let me squeeze by. Quite unlike the polite British men I encountered at my London gym.

The dumbbells were completely disorganized on the rack, and searching for the matching dumbbell, was akin to a treasure hunt in a tiny closet. Most of the time, someone had walked off with the weight, and kept it under their watchful eye.

I don’t think French men like to share the equipment. I realize this happens in the U.S. from time to time, but in France, it must be a habit carried on from Kindergarten days.

British gyms, once again, I’m generalizing, were more like the U.S. gyms I’m familiar with.

First of all, they have a person at the front desk to check you in. In France, the front desk was often unattended, and I was able to walk in, and not even pay.

The British are so polite, and apologize for not letting you go first, if they happen to walk past you.

I did notice that most British men and women don’t make eye contact in the gym. They simply go about their workout.

The British gyms are clean, and they offer towels, unlike the French gyms, where sweat was dripping onto the equipment.

Once again, just like the French gyms, dumbbells are completely disorganized on the rack. 

When I travel to Europe, I find it so interesting how countries that are so close together, can have such different cultures and different behavior patterns. There is more uniformity in the U.S., which is a vast country, but a 24-hour Fitness in California, has the same standards of safety no matter which State you’re in.

U.S. gyms tend to have the latest trends in fashion and equipment.

In California, men and women are more toned and muscular than in French and British gyms.

U.S. gyms seem to be well-planned with more space to workout and several personal trainers with clients.

You have to fill out detailed waivers if you want to workout as a ‘guest’ at a U.S. gym. There seem to be strict rules regarding your health history, (due to lawsuits in the U.S.)

I was not asked once about my health in the British or French gym. I actually prefer the less stringent rules in European gyms.

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Teach English Abroad with the Cert-TESOL

May 18, 2015 by Sonia Marsh 9 Comments

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My classmates, and I’m the one kneeling in the middle.

I’ve been studying like a crazy woman for the past 4 weeks in order to teach English abroad with the Cert-TESOL (Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages) certificate.

This is by no means an easy course. It’s a level 5, comparable in difficulty to the second year of an undergraduate degree crammed into 4 weeks. Now you’ll understand why I felt like a zombie fueled by caffeine and adrenaline.

My poor 57-year-old brain, almost died; and what made me realize that age has nothing to do with my ability to study and retain material, was the fact that the twenty-somethings on our course, were just as exhausted and complained even more than us boomer ladies.

So now that I can breathe again. I am happy to inform everyone that I passed the written and oral exam last week. I can use my TESOL certificate to teach English to foreign students anywhere in England, France, Italy, Spain, other European countries, as well as China, South Korea, Japan, South America… basically anywhere.

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My teachers, Rob Farag, far left and Jane Stevenson in black in the middle. Classmates eating a home-made chocolate and orange cake to celebrate

 

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My new teacher friends: Zoe, Natasha, me and Sue to my right. A great group of Cert-TESOL women

 

I decided to take the Trinity College TESOL certificate in Greenwich, London, as it was much cheaper than the TEFL (Teaching English as a Foreign Language) course at UCI (University of California Irvine) close to my house which costs $5,750. This outrageous price does not even include room and board at the Ritz. It’s also a TEFL, and not a Trinity College Cert-TESOL. The TEFL is not accepted in many parts of Europe, which is why I opted for the Cert-TESOL.

 

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My school in Greenwich

Why not take the course in London where you get to experience other cultures, other sights, and study within a small class of 6 students rather than the larger class sizes in the U.S.

My course in London cost less with airfare, and an Airbnb studio apartment overlooking the Cutty Sark (see photo below) than the UCI course, and I made some wonderful new contacts, plus I got to sightsee and visit my memoir author friend Ian Mathie. Another blog post to follow.

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View of the Cutty Sark from my bedroom window at sunrise

So are you ready to teach abroad? If you have a question for me, please ask in the comments below. I shall get back to you. You can also e-mail me at: Sonia@soniamarsh.com

Discover Greek Culture

April 20, 2015 by Sonia Marsh 6 Comments

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Sonia Marsh standing in front of the Parthenon

Thanks to travel bloggers, Rebecca Hall, Marissa Tejada and Elena Sergeeva, I was able to experience a unique tour with Discover Greek Culture, a new tour operator in Greece, that specializes in offering archaeological, gastronomic, historical and artistic tours, to groups of 2-15 people maximum.

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Their goal is to offer something more personal and interesting, and I certainly felt that during my half day tour of “Neoclassical Greece.” I learned some interesting facts about Queen Amalia, the first queen of Greece who was German, and not too happy about living in Greece. She missed Germany, and German butter, since Greeks only had olive oil, so she requested cows and goats to be sent to her, so she could have her butter churned.

We visited her royal gardens, and Queen Amalia had palm trees imported from the U.S. in the 19th century.

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Photo credit Discover Greek Tours

 

I was impressed with the knowledge of our guides, and the fact that Discover Greek Culture organized an aristocratic coffee and treats for us, in one of the rooms in the city of Athens museum, which had served as the temporary home of King Otto and Queen Amalia in 1834.

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Our guides, Sotiris, Michael, Travel bloggers, Marissa Tejada, me, and Elena Sergeeva from Travel Bloggers Greece

 

 

I wish I had stayed longer in Greece as I would have enjoyed another half-day archaeological tour with Discover Greek Culture to the Acropolis and the Acropolis museum. After the tour, they have a Greek wine and produce tasting session in Plaka, followed by a Greek coffee and Loukoumia, at a traditional Athenian mansion.

I shall definitely be back to learn more about Greek culture and to get a “Taste of Greece,” as I did not get an opportunity to have a guided history and archaeology tour of the Acropolis from an expert.

By the way, if you want a custom tour, Discover Greek Culture specializes in those as well as many others. I also heard that they won a Silver Award in the 2015 Greek Tourism Awards for their innovative tourism products.

If you’re interested in going to Greece and want something a little different than the tours that herd you around like cattle, why not check out a unique tour.

Have you visited Greece? If so, what was your favorite tour?

 

Discoverability: The Key to Successful Indie Publishing

April 14, 2015 by Sonia Marsh Leave a Comment

 

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“Discoverability” seems to be the central theme at the 2015 Publishers University conference; something all indie publishers need to put at the top of their book publishing, marketing and promotion list. In 2014, the theme was the importance of indie authors becoming entrepreneurs, hence the term: “Authorpreneur.”

“Discoverability” is what the majority of self-published authors, or independent publishers, are looking for, and with 43 million book buyers in the U.S., how do you get discovered?

According to Peter Hildick-Smith, President of Codex Group, who presented, “How Books Sell,” there are three essential pillars to success:

  • Discoverability: Do I know the book exists?
  • Conversion: Is the book message interesting? Do I want to buy it?
  • Availability: Is the book available for purchase in book stores?

You need to do all 3 well, in order to sell books. Obviously if no one discovers your book, there are no sales.

How many true book buyers are there in the U.S.?

  • 235 million adults
  • 43 million adult book buyers
  • 83 million infrequent book buyers, (those who hear about a popular book, and then buy it.)
  • 13 million frequent book buyers (most of them are well-educated and make 50% more income than the average.)
  • Digital books are now skewed towards older people, because they can make the print larger, etc.

But discoverability alone does not guarantee book sales, it simply means an awareness that the book exists. Sadly, there was no difference in online discovery selling, between 2010 and 2014. The percentage remained low at 6%..

The real problem lies in the conversion aspect of book sales.

How do you move a discoverer to act to buy the book?

According to statistics on books purchased in the U.S. in 2014

  • 29% of sales were because of a favorite author/series
  • 24% Book topic/message
  • 13% Personal recommendations

Author Brands dominate the list in both fiction and non-fiction book sales.

  • In order to be considered an author brand, you need to have 500,000 fans or more.
  • Your book/topic message is critical in determining book purchasing conversions, and increases towards narrative non-fiction and non-fiction.
  • Book covers make a huge difference in book sales. They have to be able to tap into the reader’s imagination.
  • A free e-book sticker with purchase of print book, made no difference in book sales.

Conclusion

  • Books are an extreme niche market; focus on your target audience.
  • Publish for the 85 million untapped book buyers.
  • Discoverability is not a one-size fits all. Be different.
  • Conversion is not discovery, and discovery is not conversion.
  • Your book message is the mini-story that has to connect with the buyer.
  • Book stores remain the largest discovery sources; not Amazon
  • You need Discoverability, Conversion and Availability or you lose.

STAND OUT, have a bold message. There are 51.9 million books sold on Amazon as of April 2015, so you need a BOLD MESSAGE.

Travel with Me As I Reinvent Myself

April 9, 2015 by Sonia Marsh 5 Comments

Follow Me as I Start a New Chapter in My Life
April 9th-June 8th, 20151. AUSTIN, TX IBPA (Independent Book Publishers Association, “Publishers University” conference.
2). ATHENS, GREECE, and possibly the island of HYDRA.
3). GREENWICH, LONDON- Studying for the TESOL, to teach English as a 2nd language.
4). PARIS, to celebrate my dad’s 90th birthday.
5). St. Malo, Brittany for 4 days.
6). Pedraza, Spain, volunteering with Vaughan Town in the 13th Century village of Pedraze
7). Back to Los Angeles, June 8th.
Ithaca, Greece taken by Marissa Tejada with Travellers Bloggers Greece. 
1). Austin, Texas
IBPA (Independent Book Publishers’ Association) from April 9-11 in Austin, Texas. I shall blog about the topics that I’ve signed up for like:

  • How to be a Profitable One-Person Publishing Company
  • Building Author Platform with Social Media and Publicity
  • Profitable Sales Beyond Bookstores and Libraries
  • What You Need to Know to Get Your ebook Distributed (with or without Amazon.)
  • Book Metadata from Head to Toe
  • How to Sell Your Books by the Truckload on Amazon

My youngest son moved to Austin. He says there are some great restaurants and live bands everywhere, so I shall combine IBPA  “Publishing University” with some special time with my son. Here is what I learned from last year’s IBPA conference.

Photo of Leros, Greece, taken by Rebecca Hall.
2). Athens Greece
I am spending an authentic vacation in Greece, thanks to Rebecca Hall, who writes a wonderful blog about Greece and more, called “Life Beyond Borders”. She connected me with Marissa and Elena,  the Travel Bloggers Greece ladies, They prepared a custom tour for me with “Discover Greek Culture, Dig Deeper, Discover More.”
I shall blog about my adventures in Greece from April 14-18. I start with a walking tour of the National Garden, originally commissioned by Queen Amalia, the first Queen of Greece. This will be followed by a private tour of the museum of the City of Athens, Vouros-Eutaxias Foundation, accompanied by the museum’s researcher. The focus is on modern history of Greece, from 1834 onwards.I shall enjoy the aristocratic life in the early years of the Modern Greek state served at a 19th century dining I also hope to visit the island of Hydra with Beccy.
I have booked a studio apartment on Airbnb with a view of the Cutty Sark
3) Greenwich, London
I am taking the Cert-TESOL certificate in London for one-month. This is the “Teaching of English to Speakers of Other Languages,” course which is respected and recognized globally by language schools. I have always wanted a qualification I can use anywhere in the world, and thanks to  Rebecca Hall, who writes about “Life Beyond Borders” blog, I was guided to this specific course.
I booked my studio apartment with Airbnb for one-month to cut down on my expenses in London. Here’s what I did to save money.
My wonderful dad turns 90 in one month. This was taken last year.
4) Paris
My dad turns 90 on May 20th, so I am excited to be in Paris to celebrate with my European family. Dad’s dilemma is whether to have a small family get-together, which is what he would prefer, or whether to turn it into a big party, which some family and friends are hoping for.
5). St. Malo, Brittany.
My father is still in great shape and loves to travel. This year he, and his wife, Jill, visited Myanmar- (Burma). I am lucky to be invited to join both of them on a 4 day trip to St. Malo, Brittany. Watch this VIDEO to get an idea of the scenery, people and beaches. More photos and information about St. Malo.
6). PEDRAZA, Spain.I volunteered in May 2014, with Vaughan Volunteers in Spain. This time I shall be doing the same, in a 13th Century Village, called, Pedraza. Here is a VIDEOshowing the village where I shall spend one week with Spaniards who have signed up to improve their English conversational skills. Most of them are business people who need to practice with native Anglos. That’s what they call the volunteers. Our first-class accommodation and meals are paid for. I wrote a blog post, “Get a Free Vacation While Speaking English” about my wonderful experience last year. Check out all the photos of Pedraza from a previous volunteer. It’s so beautiful.
My two American volunteer friends in Spain in May 2014 with Vaughan Town. Woody and Kathi.
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