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Readers’ Favorite Awards-2014 Gold Medal for My Memoir

November 20, 2014 by Sonia Marsh Leave a Comment

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I’m on my way to Miami to receive the 2014 Readers’ Favorite, “Gold” Medal Award for memoirs.

I am very happy, honored and surprised.

My biggest joy is to meet my fellow bloggers, authors, and those who have contributed to the “My Gutsy Story” Anthology.

Linda Kovic  Skov on page 234 of  My Gutsy Story® Anthology: True Stories of Love, Courage and Adventure From Around the World

Gisela Hausmann who also won a “Gold Medal” for Naked Determination,  in the motivational category.

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Freeways to Flip-Flops with the gold seal from Readers’ Favorite Awards

I shall share photos with you from Miami.

WIN 10 FREE COPIES 

TO GIVE AWAY AS HOLIDAY GIFTS

CONTEST RULES

Send us a 500 word max. story by December 13th (e-mail: Sonia@soniaMarsh.com)

1). Have You Inspired Someone to Take a Risk and be Gutsy?

2). Has Someone Inspired You to Take a Risk and be Gutsy?

 Win 10 FREE copies of the My Gutsy Story® 

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 Anthology to give as Christmas Gifts and motivate others to Become Gutsy in 2015

I receive wonderful testimonials from people who are inspired by these stories, and here is one example.

“Just wanted you to know that you have been such an encouragement for me, and I appreciate you!  I didn’t want to start my own imprint, but now I see how important it is and will do so after the first of the year. You have already encouraged so many women to get out there and get it done!  a true inspiration. And if the Peace Corps doesn’t work out, then there are plenty of women right here in OC who need your help in starting a business.” Janet Simcic.

My author friend, Shirley Showalter, planted the seed of a contest on how you have, or can help  SOMEONE become more “GUTSY” in their life.
Do you have a story to share about changing one person? Making them go for their dreams, encouraging them?
Take the risk contest today.
 

Take the Risk Contest

November 17, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 4 Comments

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Take The Risk Contest.
I started the My Gutsy Story® Anthology series in order to inspire people to help one another take risks in life.
I’m a firm believer in going for your dreams and passions in life. Whether those are “baby steps” or huge changes in your life, I’m all for it. As you know this site is called:

“Gutsy Living: Life’s Too Short to Play it Safe.”

I also believe in being proactive and making things happen. Things don’t just happen, you have to make them happen.

Everyone goes through different stages in life, and I myself am going through a major change in the last 4 months, including my divorce.

My goal is to inspire people to take their so-called “problems” and turn them into opportunities.

WIN 10 FREE COPIES 

TO GIVE AWAY AS HOLIDAY GIFTS

CONTEST RULES

Send us a 500 word max. story by December 13th (e-mail: Sonia@soniaMarsh.com)

1). Have You Inspired Someone to Take a Risk and be Gutsy?

2). Has Someone Inspired You to Take a Risk and be Gutsy?

 Win 10 FREE copies of the My Gutsy Story® 

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MGS FINAL COVER Small

 Anthology to give as Christmas Gifts and motivate others to Become Gutsy in 2015

I receive wonderful testimonials from people who are inspired by these stories, and here is one example.

“Just wanted you to know that you have been such an encouragement for me, and I appreciate you!  I didn’t want to start my own imprint, but now I see how important it is and will do so after the first of the year. You have already encouraged so many women to get out there and get it done!  a true inspiration. And if the Peace Corps doesn’t work out, then there are plenty of women right here in OC who need your help in starting a business.” Janet Simcic.

My author friend, Shirley Showalter, planted the seed of a contest on how you have, or can help  SOMEONE become more “GUTSY” in their life.
Do you have a story to share about changing one person? Making them go for their dreams, encouraging them?
Take the risk contest today.
 

Winner of the October 2014 “My Gutsy Story®”

November 13, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 1 Comment

This October we had FOUR OUTSTANDING  “My Gutsy Story®” authors. Some of these stories will be included in our 3rd “My Gutsy Story®” Anthology, published in 2015.  Thank you to all five authors. Your stories are all WINNERS.

1st Place, with 63% of the votes, goes to Jane Franklin with her moving story entitled: “Proud to Serve, But the War Wasn’t Over For Him”

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Jane Franklin and her husband.

 

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Jane Franklin

2nd Place, with 24% of the votes, goes to  Sherri Martins-Hutchinson with her story entitled, “My Journey From Suburbanite to Farm Girl.”

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Sherri Martins-Hutchinson

3rd Place goes to Don Darkes, ““Wait. Don’t shoot!” How My Family Came Close to Extinction.”

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Don Darkes

 

4th Place goes to Lee Lomas, with her story, “Having the Courage to Be Myself.”

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NOW ACCEPTING SUBMISSIONS

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International Book Awards Finalist 2014

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2014 WINNER of the PARIS BOOK FESTIVAL

 We just won our 4th Award for the Anthology. 

CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT ABOUT OUR AWARDS.

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Portraying Pain and Survival in Memoir by Amy Friedman

November 10, 2014 by Sonia Marsh Leave a Comment

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Amy Friedman photo credit: http://www.amyfriedman.net/

 

As someone who loves to read and write memoirs, I was inspired by Amy Friedman’s life story, and the lessons she offered memoir writers at the California Writers Club-Orange, on Saturday, November 8th, 2014.

Her presentation topic, “Portraying Pain and Survival in Memoir,” is one that she is intimately connected to herself, with her own memoir: Desperado’s Wife, a memoir about falling in love with a prisoner.

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Amy teaches creative writing and offered some helpful tools for us to consider when writing our memoirs.

“When you can write down something that troubles you, it can change you. Something changes in the brain.”

Amy made a comment that applies to memoir writers:

  • You have to let go of your agendas

What does this mean?

Well if you’re trying to prove something like, “I’m not crazy to have married a prisoner, ” Amy says, or

perhaps trying to prove that, “People in prison are people too.”

In other words, if your agenda is, I’m going to:

  • Show you
  • Prove to you
  • Teach you

Then you are probably going to lie on the page to prove your point.

This is a great point that I had not thought of, and it makes complete sense.

  • Don’t waste your time talking about your story; write about it instead.

Amy says that we waste energy when we talk about our story. Just write about it instead.

  • Write to discover what you don’t know about your story.
  • If you cannot remember stuff, start writing. Talking and thinking about it doesn’t make you remember it, but writing does.
  • Sometimes what you don’t remember is more interesting. Write about it.

Most memoir writers worry about what other family members might think, feel or fear.

  • You can’t worry about what others might think, feel or fear.

Amy reminded us that it’s important to write about what is gnawing at us.

Worry about it later when you think about publishing your story.

  • The more intimate and personal your writing, the more it’s about your truth, the more your story is relatable.
  • When you write and think that something is not important, pat attention to it, especially if you keep coming back to it.
  • When you write your memoir, tell your story first.
  • The reflection aspect of memoir, the “I think, I feel, I understand,” should come last.

MY QUESTION TO AMY FRIEDMAN: 

When I wrote my memoir, Freeways to Flip-Flops: A Family’s Year of gutsy Living on a Tropical Island, it wasn’t until the very end that I figured out the message I wanted to convey to my readers.

When I write my next memoir, hopefully about my 27-months in the Peace Corps and the next “Gutsy” adventure in my life, I want to start with the message first as a way to outline my memoir. What do you think?

Amy stated that this is not a good idea. It’s like starting with an agenda. (See above.) Then you start your memoir and lie, in order to make everything fit the message. Amy confirmed that it’s normal to wait until the end to discover the message you want to convey to your audience.

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Amy Friedman and Sonia Marsh at CWC-OC Orange, CA.

 Amy Friedman: is an author and creative writing teacher whose books include Desperado’s Wife: A Memoir, Kick the Dog and Shoot the Cat, and Nothing Sacred: A Conversation with Feminism. She also works as a ghostwriter and editor, and her articles, essays and stories have appeared in magazines, newspapers and numerous anthologies. Since 1992 Amy has written the internationally syndicated newspaper featureTell Me A Story for Universal UClick, a column that has spawned two book collections and three audiobooks.

Amy lives in Los Angeles with her husband, the teacher and writer Dennis Danziger with whom she recently created POPS the club. Please visit POPS, Pain of the Prison System.

Her website: http://www.amyfriedman.net/

AMY FRIEDMAN will be on the NAMW “Breaking the Silence Teleconference ” on Friday, November 14th. Click here to find out more.

 

NOW ACCEPTING SUBMISSIONS

Get Published in our 3rd

“My Gutsy Story®”Anthology in 2015

 

SUBMISSION GUIDELINES HERE

 

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Benjamin Franklin Digital Awards Solver

 2013 Benjamin Franklin Honoree Winner

International Book Awards Finalist 2014

2014 International Book Awards FINALIST

Paris bookfestival

2014 WINNER of the PARIS BOOK FESTIVAL

 We just won our 4th Award for the Anthology. 

CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT ABOUT OUR AWARDS.

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Finding Your Book Customers

November 6, 2014 by Sonia Marsh 1 Comment

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Dan Poynter: photo credit www.tailwindsbook.com

Dan Poynter is the guru of self-publishing; we all know that, but what you might not know is that Dan is a pilot, skydiver, Master Parachute Rigger, and an aviation historian. He is a world traveler—53 countries and the North Pole.

The reason we need to know this is that Dan emphasizes how passion for a specific topic makes it  easier to build your brand, and market and sell your books. Dan stated his passion is skydiving and aviation, and  he is the author of 132 books, many of them on aviation. He likes to entertain his audience and tell jokes, and claims that at age 76, he’s had many years to write over 130 books.

At the PWSD (Publishers and Writers of San Deigo) meeting on October 25th, 2014, Dan Poynter starts with a quote by John Rakestraw, Book Designer:

“Marketing is hard.

Selling is scary.

But ….talking to people about what we love to do, is something we do every chance we get.”

I enjoy Dan’s honest and straightforward approach to giving indie authors advice on how to find their customers and sell books.

According to Dan here are his 3 dont’s:

  • Don’t “Spray and Pray.” This is when you promote to everyone and hope for some sales.
  • Don’t “Batch and Blast.” This is when you send the same message to everyone.
  • Don’t Hunt with a Shotgun as Opposed to a Rifle.” This applies to those who send their book announcement to more than their target audience.

Dan believes that the Internet, is the modern “campfire,”  and as authors know:

  • Book promotion is up to us, whether we are traditionally or indie published. 

Dan candidly explains that the BIG 5 traditional publishers treat books like products and they don’t care about your topic- like skydiving and where you could promote it. All they care about is the paycheck they are receiving from bookstores, and,

  • Bookstores are a lousy place to sell your books.
  • Only send information out to those who are interested in your book.

That’s when Dan reminds us that the “Spray and Pray” system where we send our book out to everyone with the hope that someone will buy it doesn’t work.

Dan says we need to:

  • Fish where the fish are. (Most of the time that’s not in the bookstores.
  • Get the word out to only those who care since this costs less and you only want to find those readers who are interested in your books subject.

 

How do you find readers who are interested in your book topic?

 

That’s easy when you have a specific topic like Persian cats, parachuting, mountain biking. You only look for those who are fascinated by those specific topics. For example with cats, only search for those interested in Persian cats, not all cat lovers.

Here are some tips from Dan Poynter that I found very helpful:

  • Promote with (other people’s blogs) “Get someone else to blow your horn and the sound will carry twice as far.” –Will Rogers
  • Google Alerts (Sign up for alerts on your own favorite topics to get information on your book right away.)
  • Join Groups/Forums and get known. LinkedIn, Yahoo Groups, Facebook, Twitter. (Use 5 different photos of yourself and in 24 hours, all those photos will pop up on Google Images.) I found this very interesting and shall test this out. Let me know if you try it as well.
  • Leave Reviews, and always add your name, your book and your URL at the end of the review. Dan mentioned leaving your URL on Amazon reviews, however, I do not believe this is allowed on Amazon.
  • Spend your time online (in your field,)
  • Locate reporters who write about your subject. HARO (Help a reporter out) is one way. www.helpareporter.com
  • Book Covers Dan suggested having your name on the top of the book cover, like  they do for famous authors, such as Dan Brown. “That way you will appear to be more important in the in the industry. People will ask, “Did we miss this person?” I loved this idea.
  • Each book should have it’s own URL, and dedicated website. for me that would be: http://MyGutsyStoryAnthology, or http://FreewaystoFlipFlops.com

Bottom line is we all want to be “DISCOVERABLE.” 

Another tip, which I have also said in my previous blog posts, is

  • “Do what you’re good at, and hire out the rest.” 

Dan Poynter also said,

  • “Do not start a blog” if you haven’t got one. Instead, “Contribute to other people’s blogs on your subject.”

You can find Dan Poynter’s books and articles on his website. 

 

 We Need More Submissions For Our 2015 Anthology ASAP

 

 

NOW ACCEPTING SUBMISSIONS

Get Published in our 3rd

“My Gutsy Story®”Anthology in 2015

 

SUBMISSION GUIDELINES HERE

 

MGS FINAL COVER Small
Click on cover to go to Amazon

Benjamin Franklin Digital Awards Solver

 2013 Benjamin Franklin Honoree Winner

International Book Awards Finalist 2014

2014 International Book Awards FINALIST

Paris bookfestival

2014 WINNER of the PARIS BOOK FESTIVAL

 We just won our 4th Award for the Anthology. 

CLICK HERE TO FIND OUT ABOUT OUR AWARDS.

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